Respecting Others Men

Fellow RESPECT YOUR MEN!

This is an amazing concept that is often forgotten men. In fact quite the opposite, men have always tried to impose, vilify, and beat the other fellow man just to get what they want or just to prove yourself, show off, and seek validation from others (usually women).

That is wrong, brothers ..

Appreciate and respect for others is a sign that you appreciate and respect yourself. A man with a high quality fully understands this. Understand that he must respect themselves first, then the sense of respect for yourself will spill out of him to respect others, and consequently others will come back to appreciate him.

And what's more important for you to mutual respect between fellow men.

Because you know that men are creatures of ego. Men need to feel valued and respected. When a man feel appreciated, then he will respond and help you when you need it. Amid the social culture of glorifying the women and belittles the role of adult males are, in fact we should have mutual respect for fellow men to each other. If women no longer respect the man, then our fellow men just do not appreciate each other as well, then getting crushed is the role of men in the community!

Indeed, we as men are born with tremendous competitive nature, which is why we are so enthusiastic about sporting events, for example: World Cup fever is so excited today. We always compete well when we were still in school, college, in work, in social life, and in romance. We consider another man as a barrier for us to get what we want, to become the greatest, leading, largest, smartest, terbenar, etc. ..

But it was old-fashioned way, mate!

You are no longer living in the stone age, where you have to beat someone else just to get food and shelter. We live in the 21st century, where mutual friends, mutual cooperation, mutual establish a connection, and each network is the key to success. You can see this phenomenon clearly from the rise of community-based affiliate business and today, the booming online networks such as Facebook, Twitter, and Blackberry.

Cooperative, not competitive!

The same concept is also very applicable in the social dynamics and romance. Just imagine the stories I told above but with a different scenario, this time I made the other man as rival me. As an enemy, or a barrier and tried to drop them just to get acquainted and get the woman I am interested. The result would have you can imagine: starting with the debate, and enmity, and a fight, ends with led out by a local security guard.

In this scenario, not only will I not get what I want, but I also suffered a loss that should not I have experienced. Even if I could beat the other guy in a fight, it was clear that I am interested woman will not become interested in me. Because women are not interested at all in men who show-offs and drop the other guy just to get attention.

It's just another form of ngarep and lack of confidence.

How can you possibly be a qualified man who wants a woman when he sees you bad-mouth, trying to drop, and boasting that you are better than others?

Absurd ..

From my story above, Sins is finally not so close to the woman he was interested. But he got something far more useful and very helpful in improving their social life. In fact, the DJ introduced me and the Sins of the other women are much prettier than his girlfriend's.

If you ever watch the movie A Beautiful Mind, then you will understand what I mean. In the movie Russell Crowe plays a mathematical genius who saw romance as a mathematical equation.

If there are 5 men and 6 women in one room, it is not logical if all men are competing to get a beautiful woman. Because there are only 2 possible results: the woman will reject all these men, or just choose one man alone. Therefore, it would be much more beneficial if all men do not have to chase these beautiful woman and approached the other woman alone. Chance they get bigger, and does not need any competition between them. And everyone will feel happy without being harmed.

Cooperative, not competitive.

And the only way to begin a cooperative relationship is with mutual respect. So from now appreciate and respect the fellow man you meet. Do not ever again speak ill of a fellow man or drop, especially in front of women!

Always shake hands firmly every man you meet with a warm smile. When you meet with friends male and female, male handshake before you shake hands with women. In new social situations, berkenalanlah with men before they become acquainted with the lady. If you smoke, offer a cigarette lighter and turn it on for him. Give a sincere compliment about his appearance, his intelligence, his skills working on something, or whatever.

Bersahabatlah with men playboy on your campus, because he can introduce you to the women of his acquaintance. Bersahabatlah with a security guard at your office, because it will help you when you need it. Tajir Bersahabatlah with men who had been arrogant you think you'll never know, maybe it turns out he was a generous.

Appreciate and bersahabatlah with all men!

Fellow RESPECT YOUR MEN!

Do this in your daily life from now on, and believe me, your social life will increase and so did the romance of your life. You will be shocked once they realize how many of them are happy to introduce her to you, even without you asking though!

They are happy to do that because you have showed them that you are a man of quality that is different from other men!

But, what if it turns out you have to appreciate a guy and it turns out he does not appreciate you? In fact, it degrades and drops you in front of others, and worse, in front of the woman you love?

It's okay, buddy ..

Everyone can see it, and women clearly are not being stupid. They really understand that your man is more qualified than the man. Value of these men will go down in her eyes, because he can not appreciate other people. He will look very childish and annoying. On the contrary, it is good for you, because the difference in quality between you and him became increasingly apparent.

So do not worry, it is essential that you have to do what is good for you. Whatever the reactions of others, it's not your business.

Men are respectable only as They respect. - Ralph Waldo Emerson