First of all I want to tell you that my writing this time reached six-page MS Word. Long enough and maybe a little heavy. Therefore, make sure you read without interruption, or save it to your reading at home tonight while accompanied by a cigarette (if you smoke) and a glass of warm milk before bed.
This article contains uneg-uneg who had clot in my head since about six months ago. Most likely what I will discuss this would provoke a negative reaction from women readers, or perhaps also men, because there are very few people dare to speak bluntly and what it is about this. I will reveal to you a big secret that women do not want men to know.
What I am talking about would be contrary to the belief that has been around for this, but in fact I challenge you to open your mind, take a moment to read until the end, and think critically about the truth contained in it. One fact that will open your eyes and change your outlook towards women.
I want to talk about a social phenomenon that occurs in modern societies throughout the world (remember the key word: modern.) A phenomenon that ultimately distinguishes our world today with the world's grandfather and your father first. This phenomenon is called: feminism.
Perhaps you've been thinking that feminism is just a foreign term that you only read about in newspapers and TV news, an intellectual discourse that has nothing to do with real life. But in fact, feminism has become part of our daily lives. Feminism is on your campus, at your workplace, in places of worship, on Facebook, in your social environment, it's everywhere!
You live in a world of feminist, man. And this is obviously very related to the dynamics of life romance that you experienced so far. One of the main reasons for the cause of your frustrations when dealing with women.
The term 'feminism' new popularity in the 1970s. This refers to the movement of women in the western parts of the world who want equal rights in political, social, cultural and economic among women with men. Women are no longer satisfied with just being good wives and housewives who take care of children and cooking. They no longer want to be faithful to the obedient companion. They want to get all that man can get. The reason is simple: because human beings have the same degree regardless of sex, and especially, because so far he has been abusive misuse of power and rights owned.
Women feel victimized, and they protest loudly. And protest they have not only been heard, but also have changed the world.
When Margaret Thatcher became Prime Minister of England in 1979, this movement reached its peak. Eventually, the entire world must recognize that women can stand on the top and become the ruler, including the ruler of men. The women around the world cheered in triumph, and it has changed the position of women in society.
Please remember that at that time, women are still regarded as second-class citizens. So clearly this event is a change in social order is very drastic, and certainly very positive. This shows that a person is no longer recognized because of their gender, but because of their competence.
But the thing is, all of equal rights has been far too far and instead encourage women to change into creatures that materialistic, competitive, and Cosmopolitan: Fun, Fearless Female; completely different from the mother figure that we admire and love.
Dr. Alice von Hildebrand, a professor and author of "The Privilege of Being Women" say: Feminism is a metaphysical revolt against the characteristics of women. Men seem to have all the advantages, and so feminists try changed from a caricature of men.
Let me elaborate further.
Women and men are two different entities, both physically and pisikis, then logically the terms of equal rights is absurd. And women themselves were well aware of this, therefore only demand equal rights feminism, but not equality obligations. In other words, women want all the benefits and rights owned by men but do not want to undergo male-owned liability. More simpelnya again: women want is just delicious.
Women are not satisfied with equal rights. They constantly, little by little, slowly but surely, changing social values that have kept us from the days of our ancestors thousands of years ago. They want to establish a world in which women valued, preferred and more privileged than men. What is clear is contrary to the principles of the early feminist movement itself: the equality of rights between men and women.
And they have succeeded. Very successful, in fact.
In his book "The manipulated Man", Esther Vilar, the author who is also a woman, pry out about how abused women are given preferential treatment by men. And to this day he still receives threatening letters from women hardline feminist.
Whether you realize it or not, we now live in a world dominated by women. A world that puts women is much higher than men. A world that favoritism in women. A world of unequal and biased. A world that makes you, the men, no longer a real man, but a man who is bound by rules and norms set by the women. A world that makes you grow into a man lossy.
Some simple examples:
* Men must work and earn. Women may work, may not.
* In the workplace, women are entitled to a permit once every month on the grounds 'coming months'. Women have the right to expression with fashion, hair coloring and different pieces. While men have a short cut neat, should not be in color and are obliged to wear a shirt, tie and pants material.
* Men are still expected to be able to do 'work' of men, such as changing tires, driving a vehicle, computer repair, etc.. Women are no longer required to be able to do 'work' of women, such as cooking, washing, grooming, etc..
* Men ask the women to wash clothes, she would consider it demeaning. Please ask the man to lift heavy things, he will do it gladly.
* Men must pay for her meal, while women do not have to cook for men.
* Men must pay for the family. Women may be yes, may not.
* Women are always given priority and be treated special: special parking lady, ladies nite in the nite club, if there is precedence unfortunate women and children to let him die first.
* Men are vulgar seductive woman called harassment and may be reported to the authorities. Women seduce men vulgarly called aggressive and only if there will not be reported to the trust.
* It's okay if a woman touches a man, but when a man touches a woman called rude.
And thanks to the media which always show a beautiful woman and sexy, the men so adore beauty than a woman's personality. As a result, women can do anything that bad and was not pleased but the men still gather and memperebutkannya.
I once went dinner with a woman who had known. When he picked up at his house, what he did made me instantly ilfeel. Once inside the car, he immediately raised his legs and sat la warteg. As I said, "Uh .. I naikkin my feet yah emang this person, what it is." And I never contact her again since then.
Another incident, I never went to watch with a woman. When I invited him to dinner with friends of mine, she is not interacting with my friends and socialize like a normal human being, but rather busy himself with the Blackberry and Facebook. It made the atmosphere really uncomfortable. And obviously, I feel ashamed, because I invited him.
And as my experience with so many women, I found that very few women who still behave as a woman. Women today have lost her femininity.
I would not be interested in women who are not women. Just as women are not going tetarik in men who are not men: whiny, unstable and do not have principles.
Margaret Thatcher was nicknamed 'Iron Woman handed', if you can imagine when you become a child? Or her husband? Is it true that the woman coveted by every man? If you notice, almost all successful career women who stood at the top, usually lonely and always remain single until old age, or always fail in a relationship, marriage, divorce, etc..
And many more practical examples which I'm sure you always see everyday around you. Women DEMANDS man to behave as a gentleman, respect and treat women with respect, but they are not willing to behave like a lady and respect the man. Worse, they feel no need to change, because, after all, by any act arbitrarily, all men have succumbed, and in line with ngarep in front of them.
Feminism is excessive.
One of the reasons why such women still exist and increasingly acting, is that men still want them even if they are not women who deserve to be paired.
It's up to you judge me sexist or stereotyping. Clearly it is a fact. From Stone Age to the present postmodern age, the fact it remains in force. Please note that I do not talk about dignity: as a man, woman and man are all equal.
Do not misunderstand. I strongly agree with equal rights of women to obtain the highest possible education, choosing a career / profession that they want, have the political right, have the right to legal protection, etc..
I spoke about the role and mentality. In terms of relationship romance, women and men have different roles and positions. And it is not known by many and a source of problems their romance.
With the mindset of 'be yourself' is always heralded everywhere through the media, we begin to stray from our role should be. Women began to be masculine with the slogan: Fearless female fun and girl power, and men began to become feminine by being too sensitive emotionally and metrosexual. And this is causing a lot of people complaining can not find the right partner. They have chosen the wrong role from scratch!
Today, women are able to beat men in all things considered a great and admired, and men who are not afraid to cry and show weakness is considered a true man.
But to be honest, no man who likes women who rough, dominant, carpenters ngatur, too girl power and cool. Just as there is no woman who likes men who are too sensitive, a little mellow, and brought a sense of panic.
Peggy Giordano, a professor of sociology in the United States, in September 2006 issue of TIME magazine, revealed the results of his research for several years: the men are now more sensitive generation of love and romance than women. They have no intention of playing around or take advantage of women in relation to romance, because that men were more serious in a relationship. The notion that men only want sex and have fun already broken through this research. This is the new age of romance, WHERE the boys Want to get married and the girls just Want to have fun!
If you ask older people or your grandparents, you'll hear tales of romance that is so simple and beautiful. They met, fell in love, get married and live happily to this day. 30-50 years ago there has been no social deviation that we see today. People in those days to follow their role should be.
In those days, men and women were the resource persons were the resource to women. That's why it's Relatively easy to find the mate of your life. It's so natural.
So what lessons can you take from all the chatter at length this? And how this knowledge can improve the lives of your romance?
Quite simply: YOU MUST HAVE STANDARDS.
Women just have standards. They knew exactly what kind of man they want. Men are masculine, mature, well-established, capable of being assertive, not emotional, have integrity, can lead a relationship and to guide and protect them. In other words, women just want a real man.
Therefore, you must have standards.
Women like what you want? Women are beautiful and sexy but do not know how to behave like a woman? Or women who know how to appreciate and respect you as a man, who knows how to carry themselves and behave in front of your friends or your family. Women who have a loving motherly quality, gentle, soft spoken, which makes you believe that you can entrust your child later in her treatment? In other words, a real woman you can be proud.
If you want a real woman, so from now on do not make beauty or body shape of a woman as your priority. Be assertive. Say NO if you find women who are not women. He was not feasible for a real man like you. There are enough qualified men who fell scattered and destroyed just because a woman who really does not deserve to be pursued. Never was a man-man.
But of course, before you claim the right, you have to do your duty. It was not fair if you require a woman to be your own woman while not yet a man worthy to receive them. Because it is doing all sorts of ways to improve your quality as a man..
This article contains uneg-uneg who had clot in my head since about six months ago. Most likely what I will discuss this would provoke a negative reaction from women readers, or perhaps also men, because there are very few people dare to speak bluntly and what it is about this. I will reveal to you a big secret that women do not want men to know.
What I am talking about would be contrary to the belief that has been around for this, but in fact I challenge you to open your mind, take a moment to read until the end, and think critically about the truth contained in it. One fact that will open your eyes and change your outlook towards women.
I want to talk about a social phenomenon that occurs in modern societies throughout the world (remember the key word: modern.) A phenomenon that ultimately distinguishes our world today with the world's grandfather and your father first. This phenomenon is called: feminism.
Perhaps you've been thinking that feminism is just a foreign term that you only read about in newspapers and TV news, an intellectual discourse that has nothing to do with real life. But in fact, feminism has become part of our daily lives. Feminism is on your campus, at your workplace, in places of worship, on Facebook, in your social environment, it's everywhere!
You live in a world of feminist, man. And this is obviously very related to the dynamics of life romance that you experienced so far. One of the main reasons for the cause of your frustrations when dealing with women.
The term 'feminism' new popularity in the 1970s. This refers to the movement of women in the western parts of the world who want equal rights in political, social, cultural and economic among women with men. Women are no longer satisfied with just being good wives and housewives who take care of children and cooking. They no longer want to be faithful to the obedient companion. They want to get all that man can get. The reason is simple: because human beings have the same degree regardless of sex, and especially, because so far he has been abusive misuse of power and rights owned.
Women feel victimized, and they protest loudly. And protest they have not only been heard, but also have changed the world.
When Margaret Thatcher became Prime Minister of England in 1979, this movement reached its peak. Eventually, the entire world must recognize that women can stand on the top and become the ruler, including the ruler of men. The women around the world cheered in triumph, and it has changed the position of women in society.
Please remember that at that time, women are still regarded as second-class citizens. So clearly this event is a change in social order is very drastic, and certainly very positive. This shows that a person is no longer recognized because of their gender, but because of their competence.
But the thing is, all of equal rights has been far too far and instead encourage women to change into creatures that materialistic, competitive, and Cosmopolitan: Fun, Fearless Female; completely different from the mother figure that we admire and love.
Dr. Alice von Hildebrand, a professor and author of "The Privilege of Being Women" say: Feminism is a metaphysical revolt against the characteristics of women. Men seem to have all the advantages, and so feminists try changed from a caricature of men.
Let me elaborate further.
Women and men are two different entities, both physically and pisikis, then logically the terms of equal rights is absurd. And women themselves were well aware of this, therefore only demand equal rights feminism, but not equality obligations. In other words, women want all the benefits and rights owned by men but do not want to undergo male-owned liability. More simpelnya again: women want is just delicious.
Women are not satisfied with equal rights. They constantly, little by little, slowly but surely, changing social values that have kept us from the days of our ancestors thousands of years ago. They want to establish a world in which women valued, preferred and more privileged than men. What is clear is contrary to the principles of the early feminist movement itself: the equality of rights between men and women.
And they have succeeded. Very successful, in fact.
In his book "The manipulated Man", Esther Vilar, the author who is also a woman, pry out about how abused women are given preferential treatment by men. And to this day he still receives threatening letters from women hardline feminist.
Whether you realize it or not, we now live in a world dominated by women. A world that puts women is much higher than men. A world that favoritism in women. A world of unequal and biased. A world that makes you, the men, no longer a real man, but a man who is bound by rules and norms set by the women. A world that makes you grow into a man lossy.
Some simple examples:
* Men must work and earn. Women may work, may not.
* In the workplace, women are entitled to a permit once every month on the grounds 'coming months'. Women have the right to expression with fashion, hair coloring and different pieces. While men have a short cut neat, should not be in color and are obliged to wear a shirt, tie and pants material.
* Men are still expected to be able to do 'work' of men, such as changing tires, driving a vehicle, computer repair, etc.. Women are no longer required to be able to do 'work' of women, such as cooking, washing, grooming, etc..
* Men ask the women to wash clothes, she would consider it demeaning. Please ask the man to lift heavy things, he will do it gladly.
* Men must pay for her meal, while women do not have to cook for men.
* Men must pay for the family. Women may be yes, may not.
* Women are always given priority and be treated special: special parking lady, ladies nite in the nite club, if there is precedence unfortunate women and children to let him die first.
* Men are vulgar seductive woman called harassment and may be reported to the authorities. Women seduce men vulgarly called aggressive and only if there will not be reported to the trust.
* It's okay if a woman touches a man, but when a man touches a woman called rude.
And thanks to the media which always show a beautiful woman and sexy, the men so adore beauty than a woman's personality. As a result, women can do anything that bad and was not pleased but the men still gather and memperebutkannya.
I once went dinner with a woman who had known. When he picked up at his house, what he did made me instantly ilfeel. Once inside the car, he immediately raised his legs and sat la warteg. As I said, "Uh .. I naikkin my feet yah emang this person, what it is." And I never contact her again since then.
Another incident, I never went to watch with a woman. When I invited him to dinner with friends of mine, she is not interacting with my friends and socialize like a normal human being, but rather busy himself with the Blackberry and Facebook. It made the atmosphere really uncomfortable. And obviously, I feel ashamed, because I invited him.
And as my experience with so many women, I found that very few women who still behave as a woman. Women today have lost her femininity.
I would not be interested in women who are not women. Just as women are not going tetarik in men who are not men: whiny, unstable and do not have principles.
Margaret Thatcher was nicknamed 'Iron Woman handed', if you can imagine when you become a child? Or her husband? Is it true that the woman coveted by every man? If you notice, almost all successful career women who stood at the top, usually lonely and always remain single until old age, or always fail in a relationship, marriage, divorce, etc..
And many more practical examples which I'm sure you always see everyday around you. Women DEMANDS man to behave as a gentleman, respect and treat women with respect, but they are not willing to behave like a lady and respect the man. Worse, they feel no need to change, because, after all, by any act arbitrarily, all men have succumbed, and in line with ngarep in front of them.
Feminism is excessive.
One of the reasons why such women still exist and increasingly acting, is that men still want them even if they are not women who deserve to be paired.
It's up to you judge me sexist or stereotyping. Clearly it is a fact. From Stone Age to the present postmodern age, the fact it remains in force. Please note that I do not talk about dignity: as a man, woman and man are all equal.
Do not misunderstand. I strongly agree with equal rights of women to obtain the highest possible education, choosing a career / profession that they want, have the political right, have the right to legal protection, etc..
I spoke about the role and mentality. In terms of relationship romance, women and men have different roles and positions. And it is not known by many and a source of problems their romance.
With the mindset of 'be yourself' is always heralded everywhere through the media, we begin to stray from our role should be. Women began to be masculine with the slogan: Fearless female fun and girl power, and men began to become feminine by being too sensitive emotionally and metrosexual. And this is causing a lot of people complaining can not find the right partner. They have chosen the wrong role from scratch!
Today, women are able to beat men in all things considered a great and admired, and men who are not afraid to cry and show weakness is considered a true man.
But to be honest, no man who likes women who rough, dominant, carpenters ngatur, too girl power and cool. Just as there is no woman who likes men who are too sensitive, a little mellow, and brought a sense of panic.
Peggy Giordano, a professor of sociology in the United States, in September 2006 issue of TIME magazine, revealed the results of his research for several years: the men are now more sensitive generation of love and romance than women. They have no intention of playing around or take advantage of women in relation to romance, because that men were more serious in a relationship. The notion that men only want sex and have fun already broken through this research. This is the new age of romance, WHERE the boys Want to get married and the girls just Want to have fun!
If you ask older people or your grandparents, you'll hear tales of romance that is so simple and beautiful. They met, fell in love, get married and live happily to this day. 30-50 years ago there has been no social deviation that we see today. People in those days to follow their role should be.
In those days, men and women were the resource persons were the resource to women. That's why it's Relatively easy to find the mate of your life. It's so natural.
So what lessons can you take from all the chatter at length this? And how this knowledge can improve the lives of your romance?
Quite simply: YOU MUST HAVE STANDARDS.
Women just have standards. They knew exactly what kind of man they want. Men are masculine, mature, well-established, capable of being assertive, not emotional, have integrity, can lead a relationship and to guide and protect them. In other words, women just want a real man.
Therefore, you must have standards.
Women like what you want? Women are beautiful and sexy but do not know how to behave like a woman? Or women who know how to appreciate and respect you as a man, who knows how to carry themselves and behave in front of your friends or your family. Women who have a loving motherly quality, gentle, soft spoken, which makes you believe that you can entrust your child later in her treatment? In other words, a real woman you can be proud.
If you want a real woman, so from now on do not make beauty or body shape of a woman as your priority. Be assertive. Say NO if you find women who are not women. He was not feasible for a real man like you. There are enough qualified men who fell scattered and destroyed just because a woman who really does not deserve to be pursued. Never was a man-man.
But of course, before you claim the right, you have to do your duty. It was not fair if you require a woman to be your own woman while not yet a man worthy to receive them. Because it is doing all sorts of ways to improve your quality as a man..
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