10 Tips To Attract More Able

Many people say, "just be yourself", if you want to approach a woman. They say that your appearance is not important in terms of romance. It is said that your heart is paramount, so even if you look unattractive woman can still see your heart's content. So to display what it is, do not bother this and that.

Ah, suppose that the world is sesimple ..

Unfortunately, my friend, that opinion is simply not true. In actual reality, appearance VERY influential. Of course there are other important factors that you can not ignore, but the thing is, if your appearance is not attractive in the eyes of women, from the beginning they will reject you even before you can say anything.

As word of Cygnus 'the Legend': "Appearance is not everything, but everything starts from the appearance .." And I agree with him one hundred percent.

To seduce women and find success in the life of romance, a man should be able to demonstrate the quality that can make it more shine than other men, such as: your personality, confidence, communication skills, social interaction and other matters.

One thing that is rarely recognized by men is, you can show those qualities only through your appearance. All you need to do is penetrate the barrier in your head that always said, "Ah, I do not need to look like that. What is important is to show what they are ..", or, "I am afraid to be pretentious trendy .." Most men limit themselves even before they try new things.

Or worse illusion that is often echoed the men in her heart, "I just want a woman who accepted me as I am .." With thoughts like that you have reason to remain so shabby, greatness, not matching and outdated. But come to think, reason like that it's really not fair, because you also would want a woman to look attractive, fashionable and nice views.

You do not want a woman who tampila it is, but you want to receive your women who look What presence! This is Madness!

If I see five years back and remember how I look, I can see myself sabotaging myself and all my efforts to get the romance of life I want. I would like to close with many women, but the way I dressed-il makes them feel, not interested, and hang out with my laziness. Actually the answer is already there in my head, but then I never do anything.

I'm probably not a genius like Jet, Kei and Lex, but over the years I was surrounded by those who have studied the social dynamics, psychology and philosophy for many years. It gives a positive effect. I learn to be people who think critically. However, for some reason I was so blind to not see that to obtain the desired life of romance, I MUST CHANGE MY FIRST APPEARANCE.

One thing that I found. Like many other men, I have the layers of illusion that prevented me to see the reality is actually happening in the world of romance. I realize that every person has the illusion of their respective versions. This is the result of a mindset instilled since childhood for many years by our social environment. Kei had been little to discuss about this on the blog. And it is almost impossible to avoid this effect, but you can identify this and do something if you WANT to change.

One of the mindset that one is mentally 'PLAY SAFE'. Try to remember when times elementary / junior high / high school. After you finish the teacher explained the lesson and open space question and answer, "Obviously all? Have something to ask?" What happened? You and almost all of your friends bowed and silent silence. And maybe you really want to ask the time, but you decide not to all kinds so as not be embarrassed by his friends. You 'PLAY SAFE'.

Without your awareness, since then formed a mental 'PLAY SAFE' in yourself and your personality, which eventually brought to you today. I am sure, would often similar incidents occur even when you've stepped on attending college or in a company meeting when you've become a professional.

This is normal, only if you have the mentality like this, you will limit yourself just because of fear of hurt and humiliated. You feel comfortable in your little box. You are afraid of a change. Though the changes may provide something good for you. And in terms of romance and looking, the same principle also applies.

I will share some simple things that can get you out of your comfort zone. The good news, you can do RIGHT NOW and this strategy can instantly change your look instantly and drastically.

* First of all, most men do not quite understand fashion. While women naturally very concerned with fashion and tend to remember in detail what was worn by a man. Therefore, ask the woman. They will be happy to give advice, because they really appreciate a man who cares about her appearance. Ask them to accompany you shopping and help choose appropriate clothing for you, and do not forget to treat them as a gesture of thanks.

* ALWAYS wear good clothes every time you exit the house. Do not be lazy. You never know when you'll meet your dream woman, so you should always be in the best circumstances. That way, the first impression when I saw your lady will be much better. Remember, to look attractive should be consistent, not only occasionally in certain events.

* You MUST Clothes are always clean and tidy. One of the most important as well, your clothes should not be greatness! Get used to the body fit shirt and pants that fit with your thighs. Unless you were black and living as a hip-hop singer, very few women who think that oversized shirts and pants that interesting.

* This is Indonesia, dude! If you want a little effort, then you can get any item in this country with relatively low prices, including clothing. So you do not need to pay big for fashion. You only need to look trendy and up-to-date. Compared with women who have to have so many kinds of clothes, shoes, bags and accessories for every activity, men just need a few sets of fashion alone. Looking good does not have to be expensive.

* For an informal and relaxed situation, you just need collar polo shirts, basic jeans dark blue, and brown leather shoes. For formal situations, you just need striped shirt (vertikal!) body fit, material pants or black jeans and black leather shoes. Make sure you have a plain belt brown with silver head plain as well. Likewise with a watch. Avoid the color of gold, the motives or the brand that makes your writing seem old and tacky. You can use the waist strap and watch it in all circumstances. Finally, you also must have one or two jackets / blazers as a complement. Total-total, you just have 3-4 pairs of clothes that you can combine according to the situation. Suppose for purposes of clubbing, you can wear T-shirts with a lined blazer body fit, combined with dark blue jeans and brown shoes. Simple is not it?

* If you are fat, too skinny, short or has a disproportionate body, certainly the ideal solution to this problem is to solve your weight problems with diet or exercise. But if not all, there are fashion solutions that you can do. You have to think and to experiment to find out what kind of fashion is right for you. Some fashion models will cover your shortcomings, others even make it increasingly obvious shortcomings. For example, wearing the same or similar colors for shirts and pants would cover the 'excess' fat you and will make you look taller.

* Models also your hair is something that is considered by women. Your hair can make a good first impression or destroyed. For this, you can believe my words one hundred percent. I had long hair shoulder-length since a few years ago, and it turns out the hair (too) long, is only attractive to some women only. Recently I cut my hair, and believe it or not, I feel more attractive. It also dikonfrmasi by several women close to me. In general, models that appeal to a woman's hair is very subjective, but they certainly avoid the gel and hair oil, because women are less like the wet look that will make your face look greasy a follow-up. Wax is easier to use, easy to shape and look more attractive. And I do not need to explain the difference in gel with wax on you, right?

* Talking about a haircut, you also have to match the shape of your head with a hairstyle you want. Different people different head shape. There are oval, square, round and each form fits with some hairstyles. If you use the wrong haircut, it will reduce the quality of your appearance. I am not a hair stylist, so I do not know what hairstyle is right for you, for that you can consult with a hair stylist at a salon nearby. But definitely, Spiky short hair model is one model of a universal and relatively suitable for all men.

* The study said 96% of women are attracted to a charming smile. This means if you have yellowish teeth, from the beginning you've lost the opportunity to know the women you want. Thank the current dental technology, as are many methods to improve the beauty of the tooth. This also applies to those that have advanced teeth, uneven, or broken. Go to the dentist, and fix it! If you can not love yourself, how you can love someone else?

* What about your skin? Acne is a problem for most people. If you have any problems with the skin, you should enhance your skin care. Skin problems are a little difficult, because when the product used is not suitable even be added to the problem. Consult a dermatologist. At least, you can regularly wash your face after every travel and before bed with a special soap man who can be bought anywhere. I know, most men are less concerned about this issue, but as I said above, if you can not love yourself, whether women will believe that you can love him?

It's all change at first it will feel strange and uncomfortable, but if you know the change will take you on a better life, why not just go for it? The tips above may seem you've read and heard through the magazines or television, but if you do all the above you will notice how influential these things in your romance life. Because when you look more attractive, you will feel more confident and be seen as a figure of fun, and it is crucial that required two things you have to captivate any woman.

In contrast to change the mindset and social skills that require internalization and exercise routine in a relatively long time, changing your appearance is the easiest and quickest thing you can do. So it makes sense if you first do this before we learn to practice the other strategies.