Before you continue reading this article, you try to flash back briefly to the future while you still in high school or college.
I'm sure at least you know with a guy who likes were mutually couples and repeatedly hurt the woman, but still, all the women queue and scrambling to be his girlfriend.
In fact, maybe some women to feud with his own just because of fighting man this playboy.
No matter how bad people talk about the man playboy, no matter how the man-hug embrace playboy with different women in front of their own eyes, the playboy, always get the girls.
While you are sincere and good man's heart can only be upset and think how stupid these women.
Yet they know he is a playboy who liked playing a woman.
And they know if they got to going together with him they will brokenhearted.
And they know if the man was not feasible for them.
However, if asked, they would reply, "No. I'm probably the same want playboy like that!"
But still, what they say in another's mouth with their actions.
And you can just confused and not understand, "Why?"
Some causes of this phenomenon has been described at length by me in the article Why Woman Always Interested In Men Are The One, so read more there if necessary.
My article this time is specialized to describe a secret that YOU CAN APPLY romance in your life and help increase your attractiveness in the eyes of women.
We know women have a pattern of thinking is very different from men. In matters of romance, the differences were also more real. You can not use your masculine mindset to understand the views of women about men playboy.
As a result of cultural indoctrination was wrong all this time and the nature of competitive and masculine ego is absurd, almost all men want women who are still "virgin."
Not only virgin in sexual terms, but also a virgin in terms of romance!
No man who wanted a woman who've been together 20 times before. He feels proud when she became the first printer score precede the other men. Men do not like if get a chance later and the remains of another man.
Men want a woman that plain, pure and untouched by other men. Even if it is hard to find, at least in men prefer if their partner has a score below courting him.
I know it's pathetic, but it's true.
But the same does not apply to women. Precisely what happens is the opposite.
Women can be attracted to men playboy who often were mutually couples because it proves that the man is a man who had been tried and tested quality.
In the eyes of women, men playboy is good stuff that sought by everyone. Evidenced by the large number of women who became her partner. If he is not qualified, not possible with other women interested in him.
Men playboy definitely not a lonely man who only play Winning Eleven job and looking for women through Friendster or IRC.
He is a man who could deliver what women want. He is the man who sold heavily.
High demand.
And women realize this fully.
Women will feel proud when she managed to rake in a playboy. Because when a man approached a woman playboy, then the women will feel flattered. "How does he want at me, though he could have get any woman wrote that she wanted to."
Of course she'll deny it if you ask him, because the logic he also agreed that the man playboy is actually not the right partner for a healthy relationship.
But we know that what women THINK they want is different from what he ACTUALLY make them interested.
So what can you apply in your romance life once you know this?
Just simple.
From now multiply your circle of women, be it a friend,or whatever. And make sure these women know if you have a lot of other women. This will increase your attractiveness in their eyes.
I do not recommend you to be a playboy crook irresponsible and hurting women.
Absolutely not.
I encourage you to start a new social life and fun.
If you are chatting with a woman you like, tell me about the women of your other.
Tell me about the women you have ever refused, the women who are interested in you but not your type.
Tell me about how one woman bought you a special birthday present.
Tell me how one woman often invite you to go way and treat you.
Tell me how one woman often call you at night for a chat.
But you have to do it all with casual, not to sound boastful, because you are being told only and is not trying to make her impressed. Read the article Jet Time for Storytelling on how to tell what makes a woman interested.
If you did right, then he will try to get you. And it was not you who have bothered to chase after him.
Many men do not want, or even afraid, to talk about another woman in the face of a woman he liked. Many men fear that he was caught close to another woman, then the woman will label him a playboy, was unfaithful and then left in loneliness.
Hey pal, if you get labeled a playboy, it's actually good for your romance life because it means he looks at you as a Most Wanted Guy.
Women will think, "If I do not get him first, definitely going to have another woman who get him."
You'll never see long queues at the counter Bread Talk or donuts J.Co. Just looking at your queue is just so curious about what I taste bread sold.
"Why do so many people willing to stay long queue just to buy bread at the store?"
As a result you were so join queue and want to try the bread that makes people willing to stand and wait.
A similar effect occurs also in the world of romance.
Stop bribing a girl!
NEVER pay GIRL AGAIN!
OK, I could feel that now you're angry over my answers were impressed as good forehead.
"Then how do I!"
"The period is not in the treat?"
"My guy gentleman!"
"Where would the same guy does beggar girl?"
and blah .. blah ... blah ..
Let me explain about this further.
In a dating or Female or any meetings your girl target will make a decision in her subconscious mind if you are the type of guy who is he going to pursue / are interested in and should be obtained (read: glossy) or you are the type of cheap and hope (read: lossy ) who are happy to 'prove' yourself by taking him to places where food is expensive, took her watch in a cool place, give him lots of flowers and dolls, etc..
One phrase that is often used with the boys when Female already started is "yuk Road sometime?"
It seems nothing is wrong, honest sound right?
The sentence is implicitly saying, "Hey, my good man, and I'd like to take a walk, eat, watch, so I have time to get to know you more deeply ..."
Yes maybe it looks really type right message to be conveyed to the target girl.
But look more deeply about what you say when you deliver like that.
1. You start a relationship FROM THE BEGINNING by offering to give her something, and more importantly you create HOPE. In other words, when you do that, you create HOPE in him that you will ALWAYS do this. That is why you then become entangled to continue doing similar things to retain his attention to you.
2. Indirectly you say, "I feel I need to use some kind of bribe to be able to meet with you again." Although you might say, "Ah not really, it was not for bribe," but in reality you're bribing him, mate.
3. When you ask girls out and prove yourself with extraordinary love to pay him whatever he wants, you make the girl had no choice but categorize your into the category 'average guy', 'guy nice guy', and other matters which we used to call lossy.
Now you might deny it but unfortunately that's what looks from the guys who Female with paid watch, paid eat, paid pulse, this paid,paid,paid and other ..
Guys, you'll end up with hundreds of other guys who use money and bribes and gifts to get girls, you will end up in a garbage can, to ponder and regret.
Let me tell you a little secret, girls could easily differentiate between lossy and glossy guy with just one glance.
They also can feel the purpose behind the way you took them, watch and others.
I still remember, recently I got a call from a girl who just got back out with a new guy Female with him.
He told that Boy is VERY GOOD!
In fact, TOO GOOD!
My friend said she bought a doll that is quite expensive. He told me that when he went into a doll shop, he saw a cute teddy bear, as he was told the guy imprisoned funny bear, the boy proudly said, "Want to? Here I want to buy."
Yeah, sounds manly and gallant.
Unfortunately in the chick brain these words mean, "Want to? Here I want to buy! But you must replace with like me! i do want to buy expensive goods your, so I is preferred because I can only draw attention that way you wear. Okay? Let's buy it now. "
Sadly a lot of guys who do not know if an interest that can not be imposed by bribery or bribe of any kind.
Yep, that night the girl said that she felt like being bribed by a boy so that he is willing to meet again and walk together again.
He decided to stop meeting with him and invited me to watch the next day after I teased it out because bad guys can not see the pathetic tendency from the beginning.
When you start paying for girls, she might be intrigued by Taste Like because who does not like treated and bought gifts ...
But things like food and prizes will never take you to the Taste Interested.
A big difference!
I'm not saying do not pay a girl forever eating or watching.
But if you do it with the frame and the way that shows if you are self-guy with thousands of other guy out there, namely hope show if you're good and can do whatever the girl wants ...
... Then sorry guys, you'll just end up with an empty wallet and an empty result.
So for the time being until you really become a guy Glossy ...
... Stop-GUYS BE LIKE OTHER GUYS THAT TRY caught his attention by giving bribes GIFTS, FOOD, AND THAT EXCESSIVE CAUTION!
That's it!
OK?
Now you know a bit about the errors that often do guys ask girls go on dates now, but before it could take a girl to go out, of course you must know how to make a girl want to be invited out by you.
If you feel you are far less confident, hard to communicate with the girl you like, never could get the girls who do you want, always fail in matters of romance ...
Hey you are absolutely not alone!
OK, I could feel that now you're angry over my answers were impressed as good forehead.
"Then how do I!"
"The period is not in the treat?"
"My guy gentleman!"
"Where would the same guy does beggar girl?"
and blah .. blah ... blah ..
Let me explain about this further.
In a dating or Female or any meetings your girl target will make a decision in her subconscious mind if you are the type of guy who is he going to pursue / are interested in and should be obtained (read: glossy) or you are the type of cheap and hope (read: lossy ) who are happy to 'prove' yourself by taking him to places where food is expensive, took her watch in a cool place, give him lots of flowers and dolls, etc..
One phrase that is often used with the boys when Female already started is "yuk Road sometime?"
It seems nothing is wrong, honest sound right?
The sentence is implicitly saying, "Hey, my good man, and I'd like to take a walk, eat, watch, so I have time to get to know you more deeply ..."
Yes maybe it looks really type right message to be conveyed to the target girl.
But look more deeply about what you say when you deliver like that.
1. You start a relationship FROM THE BEGINNING by offering to give her something, and more importantly you create HOPE. In other words, when you do that, you create HOPE in him that you will ALWAYS do this. That is why you then become entangled to continue doing similar things to retain his attention to you.
2. Indirectly you say, "I feel I need to use some kind of bribe to be able to meet with you again." Although you might say, "Ah not really, it was not for bribe," but in reality you're bribing him, mate.
3. When you ask girls out and prove yourself with extraordinary love to pay him whatever he wants, you make the girl had no choice but categorize your into the category 'average guy', 'guy nice guy', and other matters which we used to call lossy.
Now you might deny it but unfortunately that's what looks from the guys who Female with paid watch, paid eat, paid pulse, this paid,paid,paid and other ..
Guys, you'll end up with hundreds of other guys who use money and bribes and gifts to get girls, you will end up in a garbage can, to ponder and regret.
Let me tell you a little secret, girls could easily differentiate between lossy and glossy guy with just one glance.
They also can feel the purpose behind the way you took them, watch and others.
I still remember, recently I got a call from a girl who just got back out with a new guy Female with him.
He told that Boy is VERY GOOD!
In fact, TOO GOOD!
My friend said she bought a doll that is quite expensive. He told me that when he went into a doll shop, he saw a cute teddy bear, as he was told the guy imprisoned funny bear, the boy proudly said, "Want to? Here I want to buy."
Yeah, sounds manly and gallant.
Unfortunately in the chick brain these words mean, "Want to? Here I want to buy! But you must replace with like me! i do want to buy expensive goods your, so I is preferred because I can only draw attention that way you wear. Okay? Let's buy it now. "
Sadly a lot of guys who do not know if an interest that can not be imposed by bribery or bribe of any kind.
Yep, that night the girl said that she felt like being bribed by a boy so that he is willing to meet again and walk together again.
He decided to stop meeting with him and invited me to watch the next day after I teased it out because bad guys can not see the pathetic tendency from the beginning.
When you start paying for girls, she might be intrigued by Taste Like because who does not like treated and bought gifts ...
But things like food and prizes will never take you to the Taste Interested.
A big difference!
I'm not saying do not pay a girl forever eating or watching.
But if you do it with the frame and the way that shows if you are self-guy with thousands of other guy out there, namely hope show if you're good and can do whatever the girl wants ...
... Then sorry guys, you'll just end up with an empty wallet and an empty result.
So for the time being until you really become a guy Glossy ...
... Stop-GUYS BE LIKE OTHER GUYS THAT TRY caught his attention by giving bribes GIFTS, FOOD, AND THAT EXCESSIVE CAUTION!
That's it!
OK?
Now you know a bit about the errors that often do guys ask girls go on dates now, but before it could take a girl to go out, of course you must know how to make a girl want to be invited out by you.
If you feel you are far less confident, hard to communicate with the girl you like, never could get the girls who do you want, always fail in matters of romance ...
Hey you are absolutely not alone!
how do I convince a woman?
Guys, you Should NEVER EVER do that!
You can not prove anything to the girl so she believes that you are the right choice.
Take a good look.
If you try to convince, it means you implicitly confirm the presupposition of the girls that he NEVER was not sure about you.
It strengthens memory that does not convince you NEVER appear on his mind.
It strengthens memory that you NEVER have one, two, or three things you can not meet the standards of his desire, even contradictory.
It strengthens memory that your soul mate is not a guy who is completely natural, cosmic, and romantically wondrous as he always desire for this.
That's why when you try to change and convince you to vote, he actually will be more confident that you are not a suitable option.
Let's break this down even Further.
What do you do when prove and convince is to meet all of the scales of logic in order to have weight leaning on you.
You try to break the logical objections, the fact that even prove that all logical objections exist.
If you're trying to relate to a guy, it's a proper way. But if you want to deal with creatures who have breasts, it is the wrong strategy because girls do not work with operating systems such logic.
They do not give yourself a favor and approval on a guy with weigh logical reason.
They do not even think.
AUTO girl gave it when he felt the structure of a special emotion when I'm together with you.
But make no mistake, The Special Structure of Emotions, guys, instead of Logical Proof That Special!
Usually guys lossy misunderstood about this.
Lossy ordinary guy thinking when he proved a thousand reasons of maturity, kindness, seriousness, and also the benefits of self, the girl would be felt not wait to throw him in your arms.
One big!
It's NOT about you PROVE WHAT Things special to her.
It's about WHO you are That makes Herself FEEL special!
Girls feel special when he knew he was associated with a guy who has a strong self-confidence, life is interesting, and high standards, and did indeed consider himself special.
And the girls will judge these things from whatever is said by the body EXCEPT the mouth. He will assess your body language, attitude and meaning of each choice, then imagine the things that happen in the future if he decides touch with you.
He was even far more likely to trust what people say about you than what you claim for yourself.
In fact, when you prove yourself, you're enhance your risk rejected because now he has a new indicator to compare whether DURING THIS impression that he already have about you is congruent with what you say to him NEW.
What do you think could become the ultimate weapon suddenly turned into a deadly weapon for yourself.
So if you long as it's seen lossy in his eyes, no matter the hundreds of hours you are trying to prove yourself verbally, your dream girl would not budge one bit.
You just run out of time and effort, not to mention the hurt that was not treated fairly after all the things you've done to him.
I want you to really understand how fatal if you try to prove yourself is the right choice for him.
Allow yourself to sink to understand the truth of the following metaphor.
A person taking medication because I knew he was dealing with a disease.
When girls dream to see you give up all regret capsules, tablets appointments, ngarep powder, and syrup of proof from you, he automatically knew that he would contract the disease when associated with you.
Two ways to cure it.
Receive these drugs and hope to survive.
Or might as well throw away the source of the disease.
I no longer need to explain where the choices are far more satisfying, right?
So what's my answer if it met a man who asked, "How can I do that again I assured her that I approached the right guy for her and want to choose me?"
Simple.
BEST way to convince the girl picked is to convince to vote for NOT ATTEMPT!
The BEST way to get a woman's favor and approval is to NOT seek it in the first place!
By not trying to prove anything:
* You automatically eliminate the presupposition that you lack something.
* You actually make the girls feel the need to prove myself to you, both verbally and action.
* You indicate that you do not feel themselves threatened by the possibility that girls do not like you, even assuming she's chasing you. It would be more potent when combined with J2.
* You indicate that you are comfortable with yourself and the girl will lose a lot of things if you do not follow like you.
* You will die when you get caught when a guard so that your actions are not congruent with the statement your verbal.
To be a guy who wants a girl, you must be a figure of a charismatic leader.
A charismatic leader who will not try to get people's attention, proven strengths.
If you do that, it means you are not a leader who is admired. That is the kind of behavior a little boy who needs recognition and attention of people around him.
Guys, girls want GUYS who can make them feel special, instead of snot-nosed kid who should be treated carefully.
If you feel the need to prove yourself to the girl, I dared to make sure you will not get the girl or the relationship that you dreamed of.
You're too busy to 'satisfactory' wishes, so he has no desire anymore to get in touch with you.
You're also too busy filling logical points that are not valuable to him, even doubts he would confirm to you.
The more you spit verbal evidence, the more he pulls away from you.
Do not ever forget that!
If you ask, "Okay, so if I can prove guns themselves, then how do I so he would be a meditation of myself?"
Again, simple.
Assume he does HAVE to give yourself a favor and approval to you. Assume that he is chasing. Assume that he first showed interest to you.
Create a scenario or a game as if she is a girl who's crazy about you. Then you deny it verbally using the J2, but at the same time show the exact opposite with your body language, that is if you give him a chance to get in touch with you.
Remember that the Glossy Guy is Man of Action. Glossy guys talk more with their actions than with their tongues and lips.
So if you are determined to end a miserable period your single it, start with something more than just diligently read the article this blog..
Perform each Insights and strategies have you read in every your interaction with girls.
If you been puzzled why you keep getting the same negative results in loyal adventure of your romance, it's because you keep doing the same losing strategy over and over again.
It is time to make changes.
You can not prove anything to the girl so she believes that you are the right choice.
Take a good look.
If you try to convince, it means you implicitly confirm the presupposition of the girls that he NEVER was not sure about you.
It strengthens memory that does not convince you NEVER appear on his mind.
It strengthens memory that you NEVER have one, two, or three things you can not meet the standards of his desire, even contradictory.
It strengthens memory that your soul mate is not a guy who is completely natural, cosmic, and romantically wondrous as he always desire for this.
That's why when you try to change and convince you to vote, he actually will be more confident that you are not a suitable option.
Let's break this down even Further.
What do you do when prove and convince is to meet all of the scales of logic in order to have weight leaning on you.
You try to break the logical objections, the fact that even prove that all logical objections exist.
If you're trying to relate to a guy, it's a proper way. But if you want to deal with creatures who have breasts, it is the wrong strategy because girls do not work with operating systems such logic.
They do not give yourself a favor and approval on a guy with weigh logical reason.
They do not even think.
AUTO girl gave it when he felt the structure of a special emotion when I'm together with you.
But make no mistake, The Special Structure of Emotions, guys, instead of Logical Proof That Special!
Usually guys lossy misunderstood about this.
Lossy ordinary guy thinking when he proved a thousand reasons of maturity, kindness, seriousness, and also the benefits of self, the girl would be felt not wait to throw him in your arms.
One big!
It's NOT about you PROVE WHAT Things special to her.
It's about WHO you are That makes Herself FEEL special!
Girls feel special when he knew he was associated with a guy who has a strong self-confidence, life is interesting, and high standards, and did indeed consider himself special.
And the girls will judge these things from whatever is said by the body EXCEPT the mouth. He will assess your body language, attitude and meaning of each choice, then imagine the things that happen in the future if he decides touch with you.
He was even far more likely to trust what people say about you than what you claim for yourself.
In fact, when you prove yourself, you're enhance your risk rejected because now he has a new indicator to compare whether DURING THIS impression that he already have about you is congruent with what you say to him NEW.
What do you think could become the ultimate weapon suddenly turned into a deadly weapon for yourself.
So if you long as it's seen lossy in his eyes, no matter the hundreds of hours you are trying to prove yourself verbally, your dream girl would not budge one bit.
You just run out of time and effort, not to mention the hurt that was not treated fairly after all the things you've done to him.
I want you to really understand how fatal if you try to prove yourself is the right choice for him.
Allow yourself to sink to understand the truth of the following metaphor.
A person taking medication because I knew he was dealing with a disease.
When girls dream to see you give up all regret capsules, tablets appointments, ngarep powder, and syrup of proof from you, he automatically knew that he would contract the disease when associated with you.
Two ways to cure it.
Receive these drugs and hope to survive.
Or might as well throw away the source of the disease.
I no longer need to explain where the choices are far more satisfying, right?
So what's my answer if it met a man who asked, "How can I do that again I assured her that I approached the right guy for her and want to choose me?"
Simple.
BEST way to convince the girl picked is to convince to vote for NOT ATTEMPT!
The BEST way to get a woman's favor and approval is to NOT seek it in the first place!
By not trying to prove anything:
* You automatically eliminate the presupposition that you lack something.
* You actually make the girls feel the need to prove myself to you, both verbally and action.
* You indicate that you do not feel themselves threatened by the possibility that girls do not like you, even assuming she's chasing you. It would be more potent when combined with J2.
* You indicate that you are comfortable with yourself and the girl will lose a lot of things if you do not follow like you.
* You will die when you get caught when a guard so that your actions are not congruent with the statement your verbal.
To be a guy who wants a girl, you must be a figure of a charismatic leader.
A charismatic leader who will not try to get people's attention, proven strengths.
If you do that, it means you are not a leader who is admired. That is the kind of behavior a little boy who needs recognition and attention of people around him.
Guys, girls want GUYS who can make them feel special, instead of snot-nosed kid who should be treated carefully.
If you feel the need to prove yourself to the girl, I dared to make sure you will not get the girl or the relationship that you dreamed of.
You're too busy to 'satisfactory' wishes, so he has no desire anymore to get in touch with you.
You're also too busy filling logical points that are not valuable to him, even doubts he would confirm to you.
The more you spit verbal evidence, the more he pulls away from you.
Do not ever forget that!
If you ask, "Okay, so if I can prove guns themselves, then how do I so he would be a meditation of myself?"
Again, simple.
Assume he does HAVE to give yourself a favor and approval to you. Assume that he is chasing. Assume that he first showed interest to you.
Create a scenario or a game as if she is a girl who's crazy about you. Then you deny it verbally using the J2, but at the same time show the exact opposite with your body language, that is if you give him a chance to get in touch with you.
Remember that the Glossy Guy is Man of Action. Glossy guys talk more with their actions than with their tongues and lips.
So if you are determined to end a miserable period your single it, start with something more than just diligently read the article this blog..
Perform each Insights and strategies have you read in every your interaction with girls.
If you been puzzled why you keep getting the same negative results in loyal adventure of your romance, it's because you keep doing the same losing strategy over and over again.
It is time to make changes.
Women's Gold Key Understanding Rejection
I am quite sure this will be one of the most important article you have ever read in this blog, but unfortunately you will not be much get nothing if you have not been previously ngehit foreign woman.
Do not know the meaning ngehit? anywhere during this, my brothers?
Ngehit is to approach and interact with new women, whether they connect from a friend or the first time you meet and do not know at all. That could happen in elevators, bus stops, coffee shops, checkout queues, gym, mall, etc.. When compared with the more familiar term that has been popular now, ngehit was more or less parallel to the activities of 'Female (approach) and acquaintances', but of course the structure is more intelligent than just come and ask acquaintances.
The principle of what you'll learn here will only change the mindset, fishing ideas, and provide fresh motivation, and recharge Glossy strength.
Please read carefully because you'll learn the ONE MAIN PRINCIPLES that allow you to survive, even to stay motivated, even if a foreign woman who suddenly hits you refuse you.
Stop from your other work, turn off the MP3 player and keep your cell phone so no one can disturb you in 15 minutes.
Do I have got all your attention?
Good, let's get started.
Friends, students, brothers, if you only have the brain capacity left only to one lesson that you can get from me,then this is the only must your best RECORD AND PLAY in your memory bank every time you deal with rejection of foreign women who you hit:
He refused you socially, not at all personal.
That's it. That's the golden principle.
So simple, yet very powerful.
Let me explain these principles into a number of points so that you can digest it properly.
FIRST, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that he also would give exactly the same treatment to anyone who dared to approach him.
You just happen to be (only) a brave man approached and started talking, so it's you (the one) who get less favorable response from him. If at that time there were a hundred men have enough manhood to him, of course they too will one by one 'kicked' by a woman.
So you for what you get annoyed? Why you should turn around to leave the place with tottering steps? Why do you have to wince in pain, gritted his teeth, clutching your chest as if there is a large gaping wound in there?
His objection was a general rejection directed at anyone, did not relate specifically to you, pal. In the early days I trained myself to ngehit, I am always frustrated every time you meet a woman and her friends that 'shoot me down' like that. I do not distance themselves from the minds of the reason they refuse is because they do not like me personally.
Although rare, the effect of rejection is so hard that often destroy my spirit to try again, or at least to overshadow me, fear of being rejected again, so could not concentrate on playing with the prime strategy.
How could she could not love or sick of my personality if he had never met me before? If I had just opened her mouth a few words, and often have not finished my speech, the woman has to look grinned, bitchy and refused, of course it's not a personal rejection of me, right?
Starting from the glance that narrowed his eyes sharp and accused, his hands raised as if expelled, pushed her away, saying her lips that contain the words of rejection and the tone of his voice that sounds uncomfortable ...
... It all is the automatic response of the autopilot which just came out without him knowing!
It is nothing more than a natural reaction to defend itself, refusing himself to open, so avoid the risk of wounded. Such mechanisms are biological and psychological skills possessed by women not only your target, but also every other human.
The mechanism is more sensitive to women because they do have to be alert to take care of myself. But once again you face rejection reflexes that are wary that does not mean anything.
That does not mean he is disgusted with you personally. It does not mean he did not refuse because you are ugly. He was not hostile to you because you suck or disturb him. There is only rejection without the word "you" at the end of the word. There's nothing personal because it's not about yourself or anyone who approached him self.
If you approach a woman and suddenly she sneezed, you would not give special meaning to the her sneezing it, right? You would think she's got the flu or allergy recurrence, something has nothing to do with you. Well, you have to get used to be like that every time we face a woman who refused.
I can rotate using thousands of other analogies to explain the same thing, but I'm sure you've more than understand this first point. If it is still a little confused, it's okay just continue reading because the next thing would be better to explain it all.
SECOND, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that he actually prove that the moment he was in reality the world is negative, emotional and insecure.
Men lossy often lost in hallucinations and imagination it hope that gorgeous woman that always have a great day, be positive, and have never experienced the emotional disturbance or a decline in confidence.
That's why you fear overshadowed doing wrong, do funny and embarrassing, or look geeky when approached. When you finally bring myself to do that and got a response of rejection, you feel your fears proved and vowed not to repeat it next time.
One great, mate!
Again, the rejection had nothing to do with yourself. Maybe that morning he woke up with a less fit state of the body being too tired the day before. Maybe he should be busy afternoon with an annoying problem on campus or college so that his mood was wrong. Maybe that night he was stuck in traffic for hours before finally arrives at its destination. That's why when he was approached by a man Glossy, she felt inferior and close themselves by refusing to you.
His manner was rough and cold it's not because you approached him, but because he was being rude and cold to yourself. Why even you who feel inferior, rejected, wounded sore, or feel lost?
Your arrival is clearly a positive thing (if you've developed a paradigm Glossy) and if he refused, it is a loss. It was he who ought to feel weak and defeated, even guilty because it was being bitchy to people being friendly with him.
The woman was not rejected you, but being himself: he refused the opportunity to have fun and enjoy life sociality. He prefers to follow inferiority,negativity, drowning in negative things rather than spend time with Glossy Men full of sensation.
You might have an argument, "But before I approached her, she again wrote plasticity happy and relax, chat with friend's apartment. negativ air as you say".
Buddy, a person can become negative due to (a) external pressures such as problem-tragedy-error, (b) are not familiar with the existing social situation, and (c) have the concept of low self-image.
If a woman and her friends are having fun look just yet reject your presence, do not quickly assume it is caused by your own personal because he did not know you. Consider the fact that he was rarely approached by a man so do not yet have a relaxed reaction to respond.
Combined with the issue of low self-image, he will also be easy to feel inferior noticed by his friends because he had been approached and invited to talk by a man. She felt good to be able to behave in social situations in order to maintain its prestige in the eyes of friends, and also other people in the room who saw the incident did not even know him.
All peer group pressure and the inner conflict makes it even more panic, so he chose to take a shortcut by issuing a rejection response for himself can avoid embarrassment if he made a mistake. Popular term today: watch image.
Back again to the problem of rejection, he does not reject you because YOU, my friend. He rejected you because of HIMSELF!
She was rejected precisely because he did not feel confident. He refused because he felt insecure or uncomfortable if she did eligible to be approached by a man truly courageous act than men in general. He refused because not sure I can interact with normal and satisfactory under the pressure of 'supervision' of his friends.
You could see absolutely NOTHING yourself element in the rejection response? Even if she said, "Uh, I see more guns elo ama chatting my friend, do not ngeganggu here we go .." You should know that it was not the reason the truth!
Just think, can someone who is having fun, filled with positive emotions and enjoy social interaction to suddenly being closed, negative or rude to others.
You can not.
Be rude to him was not going to provoke a negative reaction. If you do not believe, please Ledek and despicable man who had just received a promotion or salary, or a new student who was told to get IP cum laude, and see if he will respond to you with a serious or angry.
So if you know that negative attitudes will not be able to affect someone who is enjoying a positive life, then you meet a woman who gave a negative response even if you're being ultra cool and positive, you can instantly know who is actually problematic. Leave him by saying, "At first glance it seems you son fun, but it turns out I was wrong, today elo so insecure and negative. Hopefully things get you better .. "
Ngehit is a positive thing that can not be done by men like hope lossy. Then, for heaven's sake, why you are just feeling low, messy, massacred and fog shrouded the negative when he rejects you? You should feel happy because they do not need to spend time interacting with women a lower value, negative, and not be invited to be normal and have fun.
How, you are ready to give the Award for Best Motivational this article?
Not yet, still there is one last point, somewhat different but still on the same principle theme.
THIRD, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that it's possible rejection of the techniques you use to initiate communication with him, not addressed to you personally.
Technique you use is not the same as your personality. For God's sake, the technique is like clothing and pants that you wear for a particular day.
A set of techniques that you use only for the media to build communication can eventually know each other personally respectively. So when a woman refuses, it could be a problem is your technique that does not make it quite tempting to wait.
What can you do?
Obviously instead of moaning, consider yourself stupid, stupid, and hundreds of other hurtful words!
A man Glossy not judge him based on what he can or can not do, so rejection and failure is never mean loss of quality self-esteem.
Just because the technique you choose is not successful, it does not automatically make you a man who failed. You actually become a man who failed and lossy if it considers the rejection technique means a rejection of you personally.
Let me beat your head until the leak and then use a hose to inject a more useful paradigm: a rejection of not more than saying, "It's time to try another technique!"
In all the trip, I was able to try dozens of ways initiates the conversation, get a stack of rejection, then immediately tried dozens and dozens of others without hesitation because I am tired or realize if the women really got in touch with me personally, they will not never wanted to finish talking all day.
That's what makes me personally never consider any sentence or picingan rejection of their intimidating eyes every time I came over.
When you realize that she is actually objecting to techniques and strategies you use, then you feel one ounce lighter because it can throw a useless tactic from your game list.
You may be approached from the wrong angle, deliver invitations lossy lines, touching it too quickly, or speak with a stammer that he was reluctant to serve you.
Do hit as often as possible until eventually only a handful will be left behind techniques that have been tested and effective when paired with your unique personality.
Have you ever thought that women do not refuse to evict you, but to check whether you are qualified enough to be able to modify other games?
So you can imagine how stupid if you either give up and finish a hit with feelings of shock, never given a chance, and consider yourself can not achieve what you dream dreams?
After reading all this, whether it makes sense if you still feel low, wounded egos, so that it becomes mushy if you one day you ngehit group of women and have found them to reject you outright?
Is there any point if you complain and shut himself just because an ignorant woman and leave you when you ask her to speak?
Friends, students, brothers, I challenge you to underlie every adventure you hit gold with the principles above and see for yourself whether you become stronger, more vibrant, and even more explosive with new ideas every time I get a rejection or just bragging way nonsense.
I've told this article would probably be the most valuable you will ever get free from this blog.
When you hit a foreign woman show attitudes of rejection, regardless of what he said or shown through her body language is something that should be considered as a social expression, rather than attack or assessments of the quality of your self.
Lossy Men will always be cornered and blamed himself when meeting resistance. When home, he would lock himself in a room, staring at the ceiling thoughtfully to remember how painful and embarrassing incidents, continue to aggravate the wound was so wide open and festering.
While Men Glossy will automatically think, 'Wow, very sorry for this woman. Attractive appearance, but his tumor, lest he ... Eeeh, there was another woman there, moved aaah .. 'while walking to move to other target groups, do not forget to turn around a minute to call from afar, "The first day huh? Okay "
Welcome back in the world Glossy.
Do not know the meaning ngehit? anywhere during this, my brothers?
Ngehit is to approach and interact with new women, whether they connect from a friend or the first time you meet and do not know at all. That could happen in elevators, bus stops, coffee shops, checkout queues, gym, mall, etc.. When compared with the more familiar term that has been popular now, ngehit was more or less parallel to the activities of 'Female (approach) and acquaintances', but of course the structure is more intelligent than just come and ask acquaintances.
The principle of what you'll learn here will only change the mindset, fishing ideas, and provide fresh motivation, and recharge Glossy strength.
Please read carefully because you'll learn the ONE MAIN PRINCIPLES that allow you to survive, even to stay motivated, even if a foreign woman who suddenly hits you refuse you.
Stop from your other work, turn off the MP3 player and keep your cell phone so no one can disturb you in 15 minutes.
Do I have got all your attention?
Good, let's get started.
Friends, students, brothers, if you only have the brain capacity left only to one lesson that you can get from me,then this is the only must your best RECORD AND PLAY in your memory bank every time you deal with rejection of foreign women who you hit:
He refused you socially, not at all personal.
That's it. That's the golden principle.
So simple, yet very powerful.
Let me explain these principles into a number of points so that you can digest it properly.
FIRST, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that he also would give exactly the same treatment to anyone who dared to approach him.
You just happen to be (only) a brave man approached and started talking, so it's you (the one) who get less favorable response from him. If at that time there were a hundred men have enough manhood to him, of course they too will one by one 'kicked' by a woman.
So you for what you get annoyed? Why you should turn around to leave the place with tottering steps? Why do you have to wince in pain, gritted his teeth, clutching your chest as if there is a large gaping wound in there?
His objection was a general rejection directed at anyone, did not relate specifically to you, pal. In the early days I trained myself to ngehit, I am always frustrated every time you meet a woman and her friends that 'shoot me down' like that. I do not distance themselves from the minds of the reason they refuse is because they do not like me personally.
Although rare, the effect of rejection is so hard that often destroy my spirit to try again, or at least to overshadow me, fear of being rejected again, so could not concentrate on playing with the prime strategy.
How could she could not love or sick of my personality if he had never met me before? If I had just opened her mouth a few words, and often have not finished my speech, the woman has to look grinned, bitchy and refused, of course it's not a personal rejection of me, right?
Starting from the glance that narrowed his eyes sharp and accused, his hands raised as if expelled, pushed her away, saying her lips that contain the words of rejection and the tone of his voice that sounds uncomfortable ...
... It all is the automatic response of the autopilot which just came out without him knowing!
It is nothing more than a natural reaction to defend itself, refusing himself to open, so avoid the risk of wounded. Such mechanisms are biological and psychological skills possessed by women not only your target, but also every other human.
The mechanism is more sensitive to women because they do have to be alert to take care of myself. But once again you face rejection reflexes that are wary that does not mean anything.
That does not mean he is disgusted with you personally. It does not mean he did not refuse because you are ugly. He was not hostile to you because you suck or disturb him. There is only rejection without the word "you" at the end of the word. There's nothing personal because it's not about yourself or anyone who approached him self.
If you approach a woman and suddenly she sneezed, you would not give special meaning to the her sneezing it, right? You would think she's got the flu or allergy recurrence, something has nothing to do with you. Well, you have to get used to be like that every time we face a woman who refused.
I can rotate using thousands of other analogies to explain the same thing, but I'm sure you've more than understand this first point. If it is still a little confused, it's okay just continue reading because the next thing would be better to explain it all.
SECOND, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that he actually prove that the moment he was in reality the world is negative, emotional and insecure.
Men lossy often lost in hallucinations and imagination it hope that gorgeous woman that always have a great day, be positive, and have never experienced the emotional disturbance or a decline in confidence.
That's why you fear overshadowed doing wrong, do funny and embarrassing, or look geeky when approached. When you finally bring myself to do that and got a response of rejection, you feel your fears proved and vowed not to repeat it next time.
One great, mate!
Again, the rejection had nothing to do with yourself. Maybe that morning he woke up with a less fit state of the body being too tired the day before. Maybe he should be busy afternoon with an annoying problem on campus or college so that his mood was wrong. Maybe that night he was stuck in traffic for hours before finally arrives at its destination. That's why when he was approached by a man Glossy, she felt inferior and close themselves by refusing to you.
His manner was rough and cold it's not because you approached him, but because he was being rude and cold to yourself. Why even you who feel inferior, rejected, wounded sore, or feel lost?
Your arrival is clearly a positive thing (if you've developed a paradigm Glossy) and if he refused, it is a loss. It was he who ought to feel weak and defeated, even guilty because it was being bitchy to people being friendly with him.
The woman was not rejected you, but being himself: he refused the opportunity to have fun and enjoy life sociality. He prefers to follow inferiority,negativity, drowning in negative things rather than spend time with Glossy Men full of sensation.
You might have an argument, "But before I approached her, she again wrote plasticity happy and relax, chat with friend's apartment. negativ air as you say".
Buddy, a person can become negative due to (a) external pressures such as problem-tragedy-error, (b) are not familiar with the existing social situation, and (c) have the concept of low self-image.
If a woman and her friends are having fun look just yet reject your presence, do not quickly assume it is caused by your own personal because he did not know you. Consider the fact that he was rarely approached by a man so do not yet have a relaxed reaction to respond.
Combined with the issue of low self-image, he will also be easy to feel inferior noticed by his friends because he had been approached and invited to talk by a man. She felt good to be able to behave in social situations in order to maintain its prestige in the eyes of friends, and also other people in the room who saw the incident did not even know him.
All peer group pressure and the inner conflict makes it even more panic, so he chose to take a shortcut by issuing a rejection response for himself can avoid embarrassment if he made a mistake. Popular term today: watch image.
Back again to the problem of rejection, he does not reject you because YOU, my friend. He rejected you because of HIMSELF!
She was rejected precisely because he did not feel confident. He refused because he felt insecure or uncomfortable if she did eligible to be approached by a man truly courageous act than men in general. He refused because not sure I can interact with normal and satisfactory under the pressure of 'supervision' of his friends.
You could see absolutely NOTHING yourself element in the rejection response? Even if she said, "Uh, I see more guns elo ama chatting my friend, do not ngeganggu here we go .." You should know that it was not the reason the truth!
Just think, can someone who is having fun, filled with positive emotions and enjoy social interaction to suddenly being closed, negative or rude to others.
You can not.
Be rude to him was not going to provoke a negative reaction. If you do not believe, please Ledek and despicable man who had just received a promotion or salary, or a new student who was told to get IP cum laude, and see if he will respond to you with a serious or angry.
So if you know that negative attitudes will not be able to affect someone who is enjoying a positive life, then you meet a woman who gave a negative response even if you're being ultra cool and positive, you can instantly know who is actually problematic. Leave him by saying, "At first glance it seems you son fun, but it turns out I was wrong, today elo so insecure and negative. Hopefully things get you better .. "
Ngehit is a positive thing that can not be done by men like hope lossy. Then, for heaven's sake, why you are just feeling low, messy, massacred and fog shrouded the negative when he rejects you? You should feel happy because they do not need to spend time interacting with women a lower value, negative, and not be invited to be normal and have fun.
How, you are ready to give the Award for Best Motivational this article?
Not yet, still there is one last point, somewhat different but still on the same principle theme.
THIRD, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that it's possible rejection of the techniques you use to initiate communication with him, not addressed to you personally.
Technique you use is not the same as your personality. For God's sake, the technique is like clothing and pants that you wear for a particular day.
A set of techniques that you use only for the media to build communication can eventually know each other personally respectively. So when a woman refuses, it could be a problem is your technique that does not make it quite tempting to wait.
What can you do?
Obviously instead of moaning, consider yourself stupid, stupid, and hundreds of other hurtful words!
A man Glossy not judge him based on what he can or can not do, so rejection and failure is never mean loss of quality self-esteem.
Just because the technique you choose is not successful, it does not automatically make you a man who failed. You actually become a man who failed and lossy if it considers the rejection technique means a rejection of you personally.
Let me beat your head until the leak and then use a hose to inject a more useful paradigm: a rejection of not more than saying, "It's time to try another technique!"
In all the trip, I was able to try dozens of ways initiates the conversation, get a stack of rejection, then immediately tried dozens and dozens of others without hesitation because I am tired or realize if the women really got in touch with me personally, they will not never wanted to finish talking all day.
That's what makes me personally never consider any sentence or picingan rejection of their intimidating eyes every time I came over.
When you realize that she is actually objecting to techniques and strategies you use, then you feel one ounce lighter because it can throw a useless tactic from your game list.
You may be approached from the wrong angle, deliver invitations lossy lines, touching it too quickly, or speak with a stammer that he was reluctant to serve you.
Do hit as often as possible until eventually only a handful will be left behind techniques that have been tested and effective when paired with your unique personality.
Have you ever thought that women do not refuse to evict you, but to check whether you are qualified enough to be able to modify other games?
So you can imagine how stupid if you either give up and finish a hit with feelings of shock, never given a chance, and consider yourself can not achieve what you dream dreams?
After reading all this, whether it makes sense if you still feel low, wounded egos, so that it becomes mushy if you one day you ngehit group of women and have found them to reject you outright?
Is there any point if you complain and shut himself just because an ignorant woman and leave you when you ask her to speak?
Friends, students, brothers, I challenge you to underlie every adventure you hit gold with the principles above and see for yourself whether you become stronger, more vibrant, and even more explosive with new ideas every time I get a rejection or just bragging way nonsense.
I've told this article would probably be the most valuable you will ever get free from this blog.
When you hit a foreign woman show attitudes of rejection, regardless of what he said or shown through her body language is something that should be considered as a social expression, rather than attack or assessments of the quality of your self.
Lossy Men will always be cornered and blamed himself when meeting resistance. When home, he would lock himself in a room, staring at the ceiling thoughtfully to remember how painful and embarrassing incidents, continue to aggravate the wound was so wide open and festering.
While Men Glossy will automatically think, 'Wow, very sorry for this woman. Attractive appearance, but his tumor, lest he ... Eeeh, there was another woman there, moved aaah .. 'while walking to move to other target groups, do not forget to turn around a minute to call from afar, "The first day huh? Okay "
Welcome back in the world Glossy.
Women Like Men Really Romantic?
Are you a romantic kind of guy? If yes, then please read until the end. If not, no nothing, just keep reading so you can learn and not repeat the same mistakes that have been done by many other men.
It all stems from the Middle Ages in Europe. You must have heard the story of a white knight riding to take a variety of barriers and striving desperately to risk body and soul for the sake of a beautiful princess he loves.
You must have seen the scene where a beautiful princess on the balcony of the palace looked thrilled to the knight who recite poetry of love and offered flowers as he knelt beneath the balcony.
This culture is called Chivalry. The whole life of a knight dedicated to defend the King and the woman he loves. Chivalry is a code of ethics a Knight of that era.
Along with the development of the era, Chivalry experiencing growth and shift. You can see in all cultural products and media that sells the story of romance in it: the songs, movies, books, magazines and so on. All the indulgence in Chivalry in the form of a much more simple: ROMANTIC.
I am not a cultural or anthropologist, so I do not claim that my theory about the origin of romantic culture that comes from Chivalry is accurate. But one thing I know for sure: a lot of men who act like knights, they have a romantic soul and use it as a tool to get the woman he adored.
You make sacrifices for the sake of the woman. You do things that you think will be touching the woman. You make poetry, writing songs, painting her face, making websites, buy special items, you bring flowers, you took her candle light dinner, you say the words poetic, you are even waiting for many years. You are a Romantic Junkie.
I even had 2 days of non stop drawing some image of the woman and put it in a website full of romantic pink her favorite color for a birthday present.
If you're not in a state of love, is not chasing women, may sound like the things above is very ridiculous and absurd. But for those who are in love and hope in women, sure you can understand why we were doing things like that.
Women are always touched when reading books, listening to songs and watch a romantic movie. Women always say they want men who can express their romantic feelings.
The logic is: Women love with things romantic and touching, so if you give all that then automatically the woman will love you. The things that prove the sincerity of your feelings to him. And you're trying to show him that you are only one man who loved much.
Do you agree with the statement above?
In Hollywood movies and Korean dramas, it seems these things always work. And it always Seems so perfect!
Wrong!
After writing dozens of poems, songs and romantic punchlines that touches the heart, for years a Romantic Knight, me never get anything more than words "special thanks"!
And I never believe it! I do not understand. Why did the women do not ever want to understand and appreciate my sincerity and reply to my feelings? Do not they see that I am willing to do anything for them?
And it turns out the reason is so simple! Once simple until I was annoyed with myself that was so stupid and did not realize this all the time. That should save me from the dark times when acting as a Knight of Romantic Junkie.
Now I will explain it for you so that you no longer repeat the same mistakes. If you're one Romantic Knight Junkie, then make sure you're not busy right now and give your full concentration.
Women do like romantic things, because women live in a fantasy world created by the fairy tales, books and movies. They dreamed of romantic moments that touch the heart. They want to experience the beautiful moments as they read and look through books and movies.
All women want to know how it feels stretched out his hand and embraced by the man at the end of the Titanic, while the wind blows stroked her hair and the faint sound song 'My Heart Will Go On'. They waited a lifetime for moments like that! It's Their dream!
But there is one IMPORTANT thing you need to know:
WOMEN ONLY LOVE OF ROMANTIC THINGS MEN he likes!
If he IS interested in you first then he would really like all romantic actions that you provide. Even small things though, like an sms: "ndut ugly!" All of a sudden, it will feel sweet and romantic for the woman.
But if he did NOT interested in you, then all sorts of romantic action you will not touch his heart and make it like you!
If he is NOT interested in you, then all romantic actions you do, wait for many years, giving expensive gifts, flowers, poems, songs and candle light dinner will only be looked at as an act of a ludicrous and 'just another trick to get her'.
Women can read if you do all your romantic action only because you hope and also tried to make him interested in you, or whether you are qualified man who made him feel special.
Women know what your motivation! So do not try to fool a woman in this case the earnest Because you fail miserably.
Try to remember your experiences when there are women who do not you like hope on you and start giving romantic actions; bring you food, buy your gift, call you every day, send sms, romantic sms and all kinds of other actions.
Do you suddenly become like him just because he's doing all these things? Or conversely, you are even so lazy and avoided? Please your own responsibility.
So remember well! It's important for you to CONFIRM if he HAD interested on you or not, before you decide to give him all kinds of romance.
I know many men who have souls Romantic Knight (usually high-minded men of art). I certainly did not forbid you to do romantic acts. It's fun, it's sweet, it's nice and if done properly can improve your relationship with the woman to a level you never imagined.
But, by Leonardo DiCaprio, beginning today, forget about the romantic action only if the woman is NOT interested in you! It will not make you anywhere!
Action should be an expression of romantic feeling happy because you and the woman attracted to each other and like each other. Action is NOT an expression of romantic feelings and beg hope trying to make the woman to be attracted to you!
When women imagine a romantic moment, riding a white knight who brought flowers and climbing the castle walls to rescue her, she did not imagine the figure you are lossy and hope!
Which is in shadow is the figure of a man of quality. The figure of a man who could make her tremble. The figure of the man she liked. True Knights figure. GLOSSY male figure.
So forget about the romantic old-romantic, and focus all the resources you have to improve yourself and your personality, so you can become qualified GLOSSY man and liked by the women.
After that, only you can ask me about romantic tips that will make the woman experiencing special moments she had never experienced during his life.
It all stems from the Middle Ages in Europe. You must have heard the story of a white knight riding to take a variety of barriers and striving desperately to risk body and soul for the sake of a beautiful princess he loves.
You must have seen the scene where a beautiful princess on the balcony of the palace looked thrilled to the knight who recite poetry of love and offered flowers as he knelt beneath the balcony.
This culture is called Chivalry. The whole life of a knight dedicated to defend the King and the woman he loves. Chivalry is a code of ethics a Knight of that era.
Along with the development of the era, Chivalry experiencing growth and shift. You can see in all cultural products and media that sells the story of romance in it: the songs, movies, books, magazines and so on. All the indulgence in Chivalry in the form of a much more simple: ROMANTIC.
I am not a cultural or anthropologist, so I do not claim that my theory about the origin of romantic culture that comes from Chivalry is accurate. But one thing I know for sure: a lot of men who act like knights, they have a romantic soul and use it as a tool to get the woman he adored.
You make sacrifices for the sake of the woman. You do things that you think will be touching the woman. You make poetry, writing songs, painting her face, making websites, buy special items, you bring flowers, you took her candle light dinner, you say the words poetic, you are even waiting for many years. You are a Romantic Junkie.
I even had 2 days of non stop drawing some image of the woman and put it in a website full of romantic pink her favorite color for a birthday present.
If you're not in a state of love, is not chasing women, may sound like the things above is very ridiculous and absurd. But for those who are in love and hope in women, sure you can understand why we were doing things like that.
Women are always touched when reading books, listening to songs and watch a romantic movie. Women always say they want men who can express their romantic feelings.
The logic is: Women love with things romantic and touching, so if you give all that then automatically the woman will love you. The things that prove the sincerity of your feelings to him. And you're trying to show him that you are only one man who loved much.
Do you agree with the statement above?
In Hollywood movies and Korean dramas, it seems these things always work. And it always Seems so perfect!
Wrong!
After writing dozens of poems, songs and romantic punchlines that touches the heart, for years a Romantic Knight, me never get anything more than words "special thanks"!
And I never believe it! I do not understand. Why did the women do not ever want to understand and appreciate my sincerity and reply to my feelings? Do not they see that I am willing to do anything for them?
And it turns out the reason is so simple! Once simple until I was annoyed with myself that was so stupid and did not realize this all the time. That should save me from the dark times when acting as a Knight of Romantic Junkie.
Now I will explain it for you so that you no longer repeat the same mistakes. If you're one Romantic Knight Junkie, then make sure you're not busy right now and give your full concentration.
Women do like romantic things, because women live in a fantasy world created by the fairy tales, books and movies. They dreamed of romantic moments that touch the heart. They want to experience the beautiful moments as they read and look through books and movies.
All women want to know how it feels stretched out his hand and embraced by the man at the end of the Titanic, while the wind blows stroked her hair and the faint sound song 'My Heart Will Go On'. They waited a lifetime for moments like that! It's Their dream!
But there is one IMPORTANT thing you need to know:
WOMEN ONLY LOVE OF ROMANTIC THINGS MEN he likes!
If he IS interested in you first then he would really like all romantic actions that you provide. Even small things though, like an sms: "ndut ugly!" All of a sudden, it will feel sweet and romantic for the woman.
But if he did NOT interested in you, then all sorts of romantic action you will not touch his heart and make it like you!
If he is NOT interested in you, then all romantic actions you do, wait for many years, giving expensive gifts, flowers, poems, songs and candle light dinner will only be looked at as an act of a ludicrous and 'just another trick to get her'.
Women can read if you do all your romantic action only because you hope and also tried to make him interested in you, or whether you are qualified man who made him feel special.
Women know what your motivation! So do not try to fool a woman in this case the earnest Because you fail miserably.
Try to remember your experiences when there are women who do not you like hope on you and start giving romantic actions; bring you food, buy your gift, call you every day, send sms, romantic sms and all kinds of other actions.
Do you suddenly become like him just because he's doing all these things? Or conversely, you are even so lazy and avoided? Please your own responsibility.
So remember well! It's important for you to CONFIRM if he HAD interested on you or not, before you decide to give him all kinds of romance.
I know many men who have souls Romantic Knight (usually high-minded men of art). I certainly did not forbid you to do romantic acts. It's fun, it's sweet, it's nice and if done properly can improve your relationship with the woman to a level you never imagined.
But, by Leonardo DiCaprio, beginning today, forget about the romantic action only if the woman is NOT interested in you! It will not make you anywhere!
Action should be an expression of romantic feeling happy because you and the woman attracted to each other and like each other. Action is NOT an expression of romantic feelings and beg hope trying to make the woman to be attracted to you!
When women imagine a romantic moment, riding a white knight who brought flowers and climbing the castle walls to rescue her, she did not imagine the figure you are lossy and hope!
Which is in shadow is the figure of a man of quality. The figure of a man who could make her tremble. The figure of the man she liked. True Knights figure. GLOSSY male figure.
So forget about the romantic old-romantic, and focus all the resources you have to improve yourself and your personality, so you can become qualified GLOSSY man and liked by the women.
After that, only you can ask me about romantic tips that will make the woman experiencing special moments she had never experienced during his life.
Beautiful Women and Men Terrorists
A few weeks ago when I was chatting casually with a female friend, he tells a very interesting events, events that often happen but I believe not many men are aware of this. Therefore, I will discuss it here and open your eyes all.
My friend is a very attractive woman, besides his face is sweet and slender body, he also was a woman who has a broad and successful association in his career. And of course we know, women like that always have the men who chased all the time.
My friend tells a story about a man who had chased about a year ago. So they met at a birthday party, get acquainted, chatting a bit and exchanged phone numbers. Up here it seems you can already guess what happened next: the man began to launch Female moves him. Call and SMS each day and do not forget to invite met.
And of course such a strategy Female absolutely will not work if you pursue a woman who is high demand. My friend was clearly indicate lack interest with no reply sms, not picking up the phone and of course refused to meet with the man.
But such action would actually make the man became increasingly hope and obsessed with my friends. You always Want what you can not have. It's just natural. Naturally, if you want something you can not get, but it was not fair when you start to become obsessed with it.
My friend is starting to feel disturbed by sms and phone calls constantly. Especially when the man started breaking the boundaries of privacy. My friend told me how on one night the man called up and when the line was not answered, he then came to my friend's house at 10 pm. Knocked on the door, calling my friends, more and more loudly and banging. Horrible!
Not successfully met, the next day the man came to my friend's office. Forced to meet. And he waited until the clock back and follow my friend's office to his home. Like a soap opera drama, my friend and the man argue in front of the house. The man begged and begged, he could not understand why my friends always avoid it. My friend repeatedly tried to tell that he was not interested in the man and asked him to stop disturbing, and he finally cried out of anger and fear.
Luckily at that moment, a colleague phoned a friend and I immediately asked her to please come and help him. Long story short, the colleague came and eventually managed to repel the man obsessively after a clash of arguments and some verbal threats.
Very exciting!
I can only laugh bitterly to hear the story. On the one hand I can understand how scared my friend at the time, but on the other hand I also understand what makes the man do all his acts of terrorism that. I know that many men who do things like that because they hope a chronic disease that no longer can think healthy.
There are 2 reasons why I wrote an article about this:
First, many men out there who do not realize this and assume that constantly call and sms is the right strategy to get the woman he adored. And come to his office or home / her place nights without prior notification is one way to make it like you. As if to meet you, he will feel an overwhelming sense of love in your heart and he will reply to your feelings.
No! It does not work that way, bro!
Feelings of love can not be imposed. It is a law of nature. If the woman is not interested in you, then nothing else you can do but retreat with honor. The more you bombed him with all sorts of ways, the more he will inferior against you. Because it shows that you are the man who can not appreciate and understand the feelings of women.
Of course, you may sms or call the woman, but do it only as needed. Remember, ONLY NECESSARY. Because if the woman is INTERESTED in you, he also MUST be contacting you! And sooner or later, he MUST be inviting you to come visit to his residence without your asking! If this has never happened, meaning she was not interested in you and it is a sign for you to look for another woman.
A woman whom I date last week, this afternoon suddenly called me. When I asked what is necessary, he said he ostentatiously cranky, "Really should be no need ok? indeed I can not calling you? "I just laugh just to hear it. Is he interested in me? It was no longer my responsibility, you also have to understand.
If the woman interested in you, you will surely know. Because he did not want to lose you. Conversely, if the woman is NOT interested in you, then you also must know. And it's time for you to stop doing stupid actions that will further destroy your chances with him.
A second reason is, as long as my adventures with beautiful woman and interesting so far, I often hear stories like that of my friend above. All the beautiful women of high demand at least once in his life, certainly never met the man who obsessively and never experienced such thing as terrorized and violated her privacy.
I think it is a price to be paid by these women, because they are really desired by all men. But, come on guys, we want to make them want us and feel comfortable with us, rather than scare. How could the woman to like you if he was afraid of you?
If you are in a state of normal and 'healthy' course you will realize that what the guy on my friend it is including an act of 'terror' but for some other man who was hope chronic and experienced the same situation, things like that seem reasonable even even supposed to be done. I'm sure many men who read this mailing list ever did as I told above.
That's why, when a man has feelings hope we mention he was 'sick'. Because feelings hope make you obsessed with the woman and make you do stupid things that you might not do when you are in normal circumstances. And worse, you generally do not even realize that your actions have to scare the woman.
What is in your head is how so you can meet and satisfy your obsession will woman you worship. "I just want to see and look in her! is it wrong? I'm not going to hurt him really. I do love him. Simply meet and look in her ONLY! is it not allowed? "
It should not be, mate!
Like a woman is indeed your right, but you must know the limits of ethics and respect for privacy. If the woman does not allow you to enter in his life, then you must accept it with tolerant. If you cross the boundary line, you can be said to have violated the law. And you deserve the authorities arrested.
And it's not glossy when you get into trouble just because you can not control your hope sense, right?
My friend is a very attractive woman, besides his face is sweet and slender body, he also was a woman who has a broad and successful association in his career. And of course we know, women like that always have the men who chased all the time.
My friend tells a story about a man who had chased about a year ago. So they met at a birthday party, get acquainted, chatting a bit and exchanged phone numbers. Up here it seems you can already guess what happened next: the man began to launch Female moves him. Call and SMS each day and do not forget to invite met.
And of course such a strategy Female absolutely will not work if you pursue a woman who is high demand. My friend was clearly indicate lack interest with no reply sms, not picking up the phone and of course refused to meet with the man.
But such action would actually make the man became increasingly hope and obsessed with my friends. You always Want what you can not have. It's just natural. Naturally, if you want something you can not get, but it was not fair when you start to become obsessed with it.
My friend is starting to feel disturbed by sms and phone calls constantly. Especially when the man started breaking the boundaries of privacy. My friend told me how on one night the man called up and when the line was not answered, he then came to my friend's house at 10 pm. Knocked on the door, calling my friends, more and more loudly and banging. Horrible!
Not successfully met, the next day the man came to my friend's office. Forced to meet. And he waited until the clock back and follow my friend's office to his home. Like a soap opera drama, my friend and the man argue in front of the house. The man begged and begged, he could not understand why my friends always avoid it. My friend repeatedly tried to tell that he was not interested in the man and asked him to stop disturbing, and he finally cried out of anger and fear.
Luckily at that moment, a colleague phoned a friend and I immediately asked her to please come and help him. Long story short, the colleague came and eventually managed to repel the man obsessively after a clash of arguments and some verbal threats.
Very exciting!
I can only laugh bitterly to hear the story. On the one hand I can understand how scared my friend at the time, but on the other hand I also understand what makes the man do all his acts of terrorism that. I know that many men who do things like that because they hope a chronic disease that no longer can think healthy.
There are 2 reasons why I wrote an article about this:
First, many men out there who do not realize this and assume that constantly call and sms is the right strategy to get the woman he adored. And come to his office or home / her place nights without prior notification is one way to make it like you. As if to meet you, he will feel an overwhelming sense of love in your heart and he will reply to your feelings.
No! It does not work that way, bro!
Feelings of love can not be imposed. It is a law of nature. If the woman is not interested in you, then nothing else you can do but retreat with honor. The more you bombed him with all sorts of ways, the more he will inferior against you. Because it shows that you are the man who can not appreciate and understand the feelings of women.
Of course, you may sms or call the woman, but do it only as needed. Remember, ONLY NECESSARY. Because if the woman is INTERESTED in you, he also MUST be contacting you! And sooner or later, he MUST be inviting you to come visit to his residence without your asking! If this has never happened, meaning she was not interested in you and it is a sign for you to look for another woman.
A woman whom I date last week, this afternoon suddenly called me. When I asked what is necessary, he said he ostentatiously cranky, "Really should be no need ok? indeed I can not calling you? "I just laugh just to hear it. Is he interested in me? It was no longer my responsibility, you also have to understand.
If the woman interested in you, you will surely know. Because he did not want to lose you. Conversely, if the woman is NOT interested in you, then you also must know. And it's time for you to stop doing stupid actions that will further destroy your chances with him.
A second reason is, as long as my adventures with beautiful woman and interesting so far, I often hear stories like that of my friend above. All the beautiful women of high demand at least once in his life, certainly never met the man who obsessively and never experienced such thing as terrorized and violated her privacy.
I think it is a price to be paid by these women, because they are really desired by all men. But, come on guys, we want to make them want us and feel comfortable with us, rather than scare. How could the woman to like you if he was afraid of you?
If you are in a state of normal and 'healthy' course you will realize that what the guy on my friend it is including an act of 'terror' but for some other man who was hope chronic and experienced the same situation, things like that seem reasonable even even supposed to be done. I'm sure many men who read this mailing list ever did as I told above.
That's why, when a man has feelings hope we mention he was 'sick'. Because feelings hope make you obsessed with the woman and make you do stupid things that you might not do when you are in normal circumstances. And worse, you generally do not even realize that your actions have to scare the woman.
What is in your head is how so you can meet and satisfy your obsession will woman you worship. "I just want to see and look in her! is it wrong? I'm not going to hurt him really. I do love him. Simply meet and look in her ONLY! is it not allowed? "
It should not be, mate!
Like a woman is indeed your right, but you must know the limits of ethics and respect for privacy. If the woman does not allow you to enter in his life, then you must accept it with tolerant. If you cross the boundary line, you can be said to have violated the law. And you deserve the authorities arrested.
And it's not glossy when you get into trouble just because you can not control your hope sense, right?
Why Women Like Men Selfish?
You met a woman of your interest. And all the actions you do approach responded well. Very good in fact. He received all the attention you give, willing to be invited to go watch or dinner, sharing stories and laughing together. It seems all went well.
But when you finally express your feelings during these turbulent, a lump of feeling that you store and keep well in a dark corner of your heart and lonely, when you express a desire to forge a closer relationship and meaningful ... he rejects you.
Classic reason that always and will continue echoed by women in this situation begins with the opening sentence: "Sorry, really, not that I do not like it at you ..."
Then proceed with: "... but so far I only consider you my friend." Or any other alternative, "... but I do not want dating again first." And finally closed with: "But we're still friends ok .."
For a moment, you lose your heart stops beating rhythm and a split second. Your heart is broken, even more so your ego. And faintly from the background you can hear the song vanished owned DEWA, ".. I realized .. unrequited love .."
Perhaps you are different from the original soundtrack with me, but I'm sure you all who are reading this article must have never experienced anything like the above. And one question that never can be found by your answer is: "If indeed he is not interested in me from the start, WHY did he continue to give positive responses and false hopes?"
"Why?!"
Do women like all forms of attention you give? Do women know when you're approaching? Did they know from the beginning that they will reject you? Do they know that the end would end up like that?
The answer to all questions is: YES!
Just simple fact, because women are the most selfish creatures on this earth.
In terms of biology and evolution, it has been recognized scientifically. But I'm not Darwin and this article would be too long if I explain his theory. If you are interested, please you are looking for and taught myself. I just want to reaffirm that she was the most selfish creature is a fact.
I do not speak ill of women. Absolutely not. Because selfishness is human nature. Everyone is selfish. That's what makes your ancestors, your parents and your own still living until now. Selfishness is the key to survival. And the level of selfishness of women, especially beautiful women and high demand, usually much higher than men.
Because since childhood they have been accustomed to be spoiled, desirable and obeyed his will. Just imagine for a moment. Since childhood, your parents always spoil you, and begin their teens until now untold again how much the men hoped that always follow your wishes. All you need do is smile sweetly and speak a little spoiled.
When all the wishes you have always obeyed, and you always get almost everything you want, you're definitely going to be a very selfish. But you will not realize that you are selfish. Because to you it is normal and reasonable thing to happen. That is your reality.
Now you must already know that women are emotional creatures. Almost all their actions based on feelings. For women, what they felt in seconds and when it is most important to them, more important than the consequences because the consequences. And they will do anything to satisfy their emotional satisfaction on the spot.
That's why when they feel good and comfortable with your attention, they will continue to provide a positive response which will invite you to give more attention and comfort him. Although they know that ultimately they have to hurt you. But your feelings are not their priority. What they feel, what they want, it is more important than anything else.
The scenario that I mentioned at the beginning of this article is just ONE small example of the selfishness of women. One example is often the case everywhere, ever experienced by Jet and myself, and the most I heard from my friends the other, is a case where the woman already has a partner but he is very close to your friends . Very close, the closeness of a friend than usual.
Usually it starts from a less than ideal relationship between the woman with her partner. You are a kind man who was in the right place and right time. The women get from you what can not be obtained from the partner. He often complained about their spouses to you, saying it wanted to break up with her partner, and even states kalu he likes you. You even more enthusiasm and water it with more attention.
After a while, you just realize that he never took any action to be your lover official. Not to break with her partner, sometimes when the man was kind and attentive, he is like forgetting your existence at all. And come back to you when he needs a 'service' you. The woman was not too broken up with her partner but also do not want to lose you.
While drinking water diving. He who stands to gain from this situation. And the problem, you do not dare to take decisive action because you are too afraid to lose it .. "A little more .. soon .. she will be mine. "That's what's on your mind. But it never happened.
I've been there. Some of my friends even worse in a situation like that until many years. With the faithful waited for the woman to finally break up with her partner and lover who hopes to become official. Just to see the woman moved into the arms of another man.
She was selfish. I think you can remember your other experiences that can confirm my statement.
I do not blame her for being selfish. Everyone has the right to be Selfish. It's just natural. And my focus is not on the part of women. Everything I wrote above is just for you to understand what will I share below. My focus is always on the man and yourself. And because of that, so I just blame you who have been less selfish.
Yes! You less selfish. And that's what causes you to always fail and become victims of a cruel world of romance and not indiscriminately. She was selfish, and what kind of guy who can make a woman interested? Men are more selfish than he.
Again, do not get me wrong first. I'm not telling you to be a male bastard who hurt and playing women, or beat up every man who is close to your target female. No, bro!
Selfish here means prioritizing yourself and your happiness over the woman. You know exactly what kind of woman you are looking for, and what you want from a relationship. You want the best for yourself and you will not receive less than that.
Selfish means you have a strong principle of life and not wait on things that will compromise your happiness.
If you are selfish, you will not be willing to be a man dispensers by women, who approached only when it is needed. Or as in the case above, if you are selfish you will not be willing to give your attention before her breakup with her partner. Because not only are you losing time, effort and cost, heart and your feelings can be hurt. So you will be firm.
All or nothing. Take it or leave it.
If you are selfish, you will not give excessive attention to women, treat her for eat, give gifts and do all her request, instead you will make for the woman who did it all to you. You will not invest too much before he was also investing in you.
If you are selfish, you will do great things yourself instead of things that are pleasing the woman. You'll bring an action movie, rather than go with romance drama movie. You will be invited to hang out with your friends, instead of following him with his friends and sitting dumbly while they gossip and laugh.
Your happiness is your main focus. Since you can not possibly be happy woman if you yourself are not happy. If you can get what you want, you can provide what women want. This simple principle is often forgotten men. And consciously or not, women understand this principle. That's what causes them attracted to you.
If you are selfish, you will make yourself being chased women instead of chasing him. You will expected by women, not a hope in women.
How ironic it sounds, but actually you're providing what women want. Women want men who know that he is able to obtain what is desired. According to my personal experience, often times I have failed just when I was in and out the desire of a woman than my own desire.
But you have to remember one more principle: to be selfish does not mean you wear all sorts of ways that manipulative to get what you want. If he did not want to be your partner, then you should understand and not have to force him. Simply go and find what you want elsewhere...
But when you finally express your feelings during these turbulent, a lump of feeling that you store and keep well in a dark corner of your heart and lonely, when you express a desire to forge a closer relationship and meaningful ... he rejects you.
Classic reason that always and will continue echoed by women in this situation begins with the opening sentence: "Sorry, really, not that I do not like it at you ..."
Then proceed with: "... but so far I only consider you my friend." Or any other alternative, "... but I do not want dating again first." And finally closed with: "But we're still friends ok .."
For a moment, you lose your heart stops beating rhythm and a split second. Your heart is broken, even more so your ego. And faintly from the background you can hear the song vanished owned DEWA, ".. I realized .. unrequited love .."
Perhaps you are different from the original soundtrack with me, but I'm sure you all who are reading this article must have never experienced anything like the above. And one question that never can be found by your answer is: "If indeed he is not interested in me from the start, WHY did he continue to give positive responses and false hopes?"
"Why?!"
Do women like all forms of attention you give? Do women know when you're approaching? Did they know from the beginning that they will reject you? Do they know that the end would end up like that?
The answer to all questions is: YES!
Just simple fact, because women are the most selfish creatures on this earth.
In terms of biology and evolution, it has been recognized scientifically. But I'm not Darwin and this article would be too long if I explain his theory. If you are interested, please you are looking for and taught myself. I just want to reaffirm that she was the most selfish creature is a fact.
I do not speak ill of women. Absolutely not. Because selfishness is human nature. Everyone is selfish. That's what makes your ancestors, your parents and your own still living until now. Selfishness is the key to survival. And the level of selfishness of women, especially beautiful women and high demand, usually much higher than men.
Because since childhood they have been accustomed to be spoiled, desirable and obeyed his will. Just imagine for a moment. Since childhood, your parents always spoil you, and begin their teens until now untold again how much the men hoped that always follow your wishes. All you need do is smile sweetly and speak a little spoiled.
When all the wishes you have always obeyed, and you always get almost everything you want, you're definitely going to be a very selfish. But you will not realize that you are selfish. Because to you it is normal and reasonable thing to happen. That is your reality.
Now you must already know that women are emotional creatures. Almost all their actions based on feelings. For women, what they felt in seconds and when it is most important to them, more important than the consequences because the consequences. And they will do anything to satisfy their emotional satisfaction on the spot.
That's why when they feel good and comfortable with your attention, they will continue to provide a positive response which will invite you to give more attention and comfort him. Although they know that ultimately they have to hurt you. But your feelings are not their priority. What they feel, what they want, it is more important than anything else.
The scenario that I mentioned at the beginning of this article is just ONE small example of the selfishness of women. One example is often the case everywhere, ever experienced by Jet and myself, and the most I heard from my friends the other, is a case where the woman already has a partner but he is very close to your friends . Very close, the closeness of a friend than usual.
Usually it starts from a less than ideal relationship between the woman with her partner. You are a kind man who was in the right place and right time. The women get from you what can not be obtained from the partner. He often complained about their spouses to you, saying it wanted to break up with her partner, and even states kalu he likes you. You even more enthusiasm and water it with more attention.
After a while, you just realize that he never took any action to be your lover official. Not to break with her partner, sometimes when the man was kind and attentive, he is like forgetting your existence at all. And come back to you when he needs a 'service' you. The woman was not too broken up with her partner but also do not want to lose you.
While drinking water diving. He who stands to gain from this situation. And the problem, you do not dare to take decisive action because you are too afraid to lose it .. "A little more .. soon .. she will be mine. "That's what's on your mind. But it never happened.
I've been there. Some of my friends even worse in a situation like that until many years. With the faithful waited for the woman to finally break up with her partner and lover who hopes to become official. Just to see the woman moved into the arms of another man.
She was selfish. I think you can remember your other experiences that can confirm my statement.
I do not blame her for being selfish. Everyone has the right to be Selfish. It's just natural. And my focus is not on the part of women. Everything I wrote above is just for you to understand what will I share below. My focus is always on the man and yourself. And because of that, so I just blame you who have been less selfish.
Yes! You less selfish. And that's what causes you to always fail and become victims of a cruel world of romance and not indiscriminately. She was selfish, and what kind of guy who can make a woman interested? Men are more selfish than he.
Again, do not get me wrong first. I'm not telling you to be a male bastard who hurt and playing women, or beat up every man who is close to your target female. No, bro!
Selfish here means prioritizing yourself and your happiness over the woman. You know exactly what kind of woman you are looking for, and what you want from a relationship. You want the best for yourself and you will not receive less than that.
Selfish means you have a strong principle of life and not wait on things that will compromise your happiness.
If you are selfish, you will not be willing to be a man dispensers by women, who approached only when it is needed. Or as in the case above, if you are selfish you will not be willing to give your attention before her breakup with her partner. Because not only are you losing time, effort and cost, heart and your feelings can be hurt. So you will be firm.
All or nothing. Take it or leave it.
If you are selfish, you will not give excessive attention to women, treat her for eat, give gifts and do all her request, instead you will make for the woman who did it all to you. You will not invest too much before he was also investing in you.
If you are selfish, you will do great things yourself instead of things that are pleasing the woman. You'll bring an action movie, rather than go with romance drama movie. You will be invited to hang out with your friends, instead of following him with his friends and sitting dumbly while they gossip and laugh.
Your happiness is your main focus. Since you can not possibly be happy woman if you yourself are not happy. If you can get what you want, you can provide what women want. This simple principle is often forgotten men. And consciously or not, women understand this principle. That's what causes them attracted to you.
If you are selfish, you will make yourself being chased women instead of chasing him. You will expected by women, not a hope in women.
How ironic it sounds, but actually you're providing what women want. Women want men who know that he is able to obtain what is desired. According to my personal experience, often times I have failed just when I was in and out the desire of a woman than my own desire.
But you have to remember one more principle: to be selfish does not mean you wear all sorts of ways that manipulative to get what you want. If he did not want to be your partner, then you should understand and not have to force him. Simply go and find what you want elsewhere...
10 Tips To Attract More Able
Many people say, "just be yourself", if you want to approach a woman. They say that your appearance is not important in terms of romance. It is said that your heart is paramount, so even if you look unattractive woman can still see your heart's content. So to display what it is, do not bother this and that.
Ah, suppose that the world is sesimple ..
Unfortunately, my friend, that opinion is simply not true. In actual reality, appearance VERY influential. Of course there are other important factors that you can not ignore, but the thing is, if your appearance is not attractive in the eyes of women, from the beginning they will reject you even before you can say anything.
As word of Cygnus 'the Legend': "Appearance is not everything, but everything starts from the appearance .." And I agree with him one hundred percent.
To seduce women and find success in the life of romance, a man should be able to demonstrate the quality that can make it more shine than other men, such as: your personality, confidence, communication skills, social interaction and other matters.
One thing that is rarely recognized by men is, you can show those qualities only through your appearance. All you need to do is penetrate the barrier in your head that always said, "Ah, I do not need to look like that. What is important is to show what they are ..", or, "I am afraid to be pretentious trendy .." Most men limit themselves even before they try new things.
Or worse illusion that is often echoed the men in her heart, "I just want a woman who accepted me as I am .." With thoughts like that you have reason to remain so shabby, greatness, not matching and outdated. But come to think, reason like that it's really not fair, because you also would want a woman to look attractive, fashionable and nice views.
You do not want a woman who tampila it is, but you want to receive your women who look What presence! This is Madness!
If I see five years back and remember how I look, I can see myself sabotaging myself and all my efforts to get the romance of life I want. I would like to close with many women, but the way I dressed-il makes them feel, not interested, and hang out with my laziness. Actually the answer is already there in my head, but then I never do anything.
I'm probably not a genius like Jet, Kei and Lex, but over the years I was surrounded by those who have studied the social dynamics, psychology and philosophy for many years. It gives a positive effect. I learn to be people who think critically. However, for some reason I was so blind to not see that to obtain the desired life of romance, I MUST CHANGE MY FIRST APPEARANCE.
One thing that I found. Like many other men, I have the layers of illusion that prevented me to see the reality is actually happening in the world of romance. I realize that every person has the illusion of their respective versions. This is the result of a mindset instilled since childhood for many years by our social environment. Kei had been little to discuss about this on the blog. And it is almost impossible to avoid this effect, but you can identify this and do something if you WANT to change.
One of the mindset that one is mentally 'PLAY SAFE'. Try to remember when times elementary / junior high / high school. After you finish the teacher explained the lesson and open space question and answer, "Obviously all? Have something to ask?" What happened? You and almost all of your friends bowed and silent silence. And maybe you really want to ask the time, but you decide not to all kinds so as not be embarrassed by his friends. You 'PLAY SAFE'.
Without your awareness, since then formed a mental 'PLAY SAFE' in yourself and your personality, which eventually brought to you today. I am sure, would often similar incidents occur even when you've stepped on attending college or in a company meeting when you've become a professional.
This is normal, only if you have the mentality like this, you will limit yourself just because of fear of hurt and humiliated. You feel comfortable in your little box. You are afraid of a change. Though the changes may provide something good for you. And in terms of romance and looking, the same principle also applies.
I will share some simple things that can get you out of your comfort zone. The good news, you can do RIGHT NOW and this strategy can instantly change your look instantly and drastically.
* First of all, most men do not quite understand fashion. While women naturally very concerned with fashion and tend to remember in detail what was worn by a man. Therefore, ask the woman. They will be happy to give advice, because they really appreciate a man who cares about her appearance. Ask them to accompany you shopping and help choose appropriate clothing for you, and do not forget to treat them as a gesture of thanks.
* ALWAYS wear good clothes every time you exit the house. Do not be lazy. You never know when you'll meet your dream woman, so you should always be in the best circumstances. That way, the first impression when I saw your lady will be much better. Remember, to look attractive should be consistent, not only occasionally in certain events.
* You MUST Clothes are always clean and tidy. One of the most important as well, your clothes should not be greatness! Get used to the body fit shirt and pants that fit with your thighs. Unless you were black and living as a hip-hop singer, very few women who think that oversized shirts and pants that interesting.
* This is Indonesia, dude! If you want a little effort, then you can get any item in this country with relatively low prices, including clothing. So you do not need to pay big for fashion. You only need to look trendy and up-to-date. Compared with women who have to have so many kinds of clothes, shoes, bags and accessories for every activity, men just need a few sets of fashion alone. Looking good does not have to be expensive.
* For an informal and relaxed situation, you just need collar polo shirts, basic jeans dark blue, and brown leather shoes. For formal situations, you just need striped shirt (vertikal!) body fit, material pants or black jeans and black leather shoes. Make sure you have a plain belt brown with silver head plain as well. Likewise with a watch. Avoid the color of gold, the motives or the brand that makes your writing seem old and tacky. You can use the waist strap and watch it in all circumstances. Finally, you also must have one or two jackets / blazers as a complement. Total-total, you just have 3-4 pairs of clothes that you can combine according to the situation. Suppose for purposes of clubbing, you can wear T-shirts with a lined blazer body fit, combined with dark blue jeans and brown shoes. Simple is not it?
* If you are fat, too skinny, short or has a disproportionate body, certainly the ideal solution to this problem is to solve your weight problems with diet or exercise. But if not all, there are fashion solutions that you can do. You have to think and to experiment to find out what kind of fashion is right for you. Some fashion models will cover your shortcomings, others even make it increasingly obvious shortcomings. For example, wearing the same or similar colors for shirts and pants would cover the 'excess' fat you and will make you look taller.
* Models also your hair is something that is considered by women. Your hair can make a good first impression or destroyed. For this, you can believe my words one hundred percent. I had long hair shoulder-length since a few years ago, and it turns out the hair (too) long, is only attractive to some women only. Recently I cut my hair, and believe it or not, I feel more attractive. It also dikonfrmasi by several women close to me. In general, models that appeal to a woman's hair is very subjective, but they certainly avoid the gel and hair oil, because women are less like the wet look that will make your face look greasy a follow-up. Wax is easier to use, easy to shape and look more attractive. And I do not need to explain the difference in gel with wax on you, right?
* Talking about a haircut, you also have to match the shape of your head with a hairstyle you want. Different people different head shape. There are oval, square, round and each form fits with some hairstyles. If you use the wrong haircut, it will reduce the quality of your appearance. I am not a hair stylist, so I do not know what hairstyle is right for you, for that you can consult with a hair stylist at a salon nearby. But definitely, Spiky short hair model is one model of a universal and relatively suitable for all men.
* The study said 96% of women are attracted to a charming smile. This means if you have yellowish teeth, from the beginning you've lost the opportunity to know the women you want. Thank the current dental technology, as are many methods to improve the beauty of the tooth. This also applies to those that have advanced teeth, uneven, or broken. Go to the dentist, and fix it! If you can not love yourself, how you can love someone else?
* What about your skin? Acne is a problem for most people. If you have any problems with the skin, you should enhance your skin care. Skin problems are a little difficult, because when the product used is not suitable even be added to the problem. Consult a dermatologist. At least, you can regularly wash your face after every travel and before bed with a special soap man who can be bought anywhere. I know, most men are less concerned about this issue, but as I said above, if you can not love yourself, whether women will believe that you can love him?
It's all change at first it will feel strange and uncomfortable, but if you know the change will take you on a better life, why not just go for it? The tips above may seem you've read and heard through the magazines or television, but if you do all the above you will notice how influential these things in your romance life. Because when you look more attractive, you will feel more confident and be seen as a figure of fun, and it is crucial that required two things you have to captivate any woman.
In contrast to change the mindset and social skills that require internalization and exercise routine in a relatively long time, changing your appearance is the easiest and quickest thing you can do. So it makes sense if you first do this before we learn to practice the other strategies.
Ah, suppose that the world is sesimple ..
Unfortunately, my friend, that opinion is simply not true. In actual reality, appearance VERY influential. Of course there are other important factors that you can not ignore, but the thing is, if your appearance is not attractive in the eyes of women, from the beginning they will reject you even before you can say anything.
As word of Cygnus 'the Legend': "Appearance is not everything, but everything starts from the appearance .." And I agree with him one hundred percent.
To seduce women and find success in the life of romance, a man should be able to demonstrate the quality that can make it more shine than other men, such as: your personality, confidence, communication skills, social interaction and other matters.
One thing that is rarely recognized by men is, you can show those qualities only through your appearance. All you need to do is penetrate the barrier in your head that always said, "Ah, I do not need to look like that. What is important is to show what they are ..", or, "I am afraid to be pretentious trendy .." Most men limit themselves even before they try new things.
Or worse illusion that is often echoed the men in her heart, "I just want a woman who accepted me as I am .." With thoughts like that you have reason to remain so shabby, greatness, not matching and outdated. But come to think, reason like that it's really not fair, because you also would want a woman to look attractive, fashionable and nice views.
You do not want a woman who tampila it is, but you want to receive your women who look What presence! This is Madness!
If I see five years back and remember how I look, I can see myself sabotaging myself and all my efforts to get the romance of life I want. I would like to close with many women, but the way I dressed-il makes them feel, not interested, and hang out with my laziness. Actually the answer is already there in my head, but then I never do anything.
I'm probably not a genius like Jet, Kei and Lex, but over the years I was surrounded by those who have studied the social dynamics, psychology and philosophy for many years. It gives a positive effect. I learn to be people who think critically. However, for some reason I was so blind to not see that to obtain the desired life of romance, I MUST CHANGE MY FIRST APPEARANCE.
One thing that I found. Like many other men, I have the layers of illusion that prevented me to see the reality is actually happening in the world of romance. I realize that every person has the illusion of their respective versions. This is the result of a mindset instilled since childhood for many years by our social environment. Kei had been little to discuss about this on the blog. And it is almost impossible to avoid this effect, but you can identify this and do something if you WANT to change.
One of the mindset that one is mentally 'PLAY SAFE'. Try to remember when times elementary / junior high / high school. After you finish the teacher explained the lesson and open space question and answer, "Obviously all? Have something to ask?" What happened? You and almost all of your friends bowed and silent silence. And maybe you really want to ask the time, but you decide not to all kinds so as not be embarrassed by his friends. You 'PLAY SAFE'.
Without your awareness, since then formed a mental 'PLAY SAFE' in yourself and your personality, which eventually brought to you today. I am sure, would often similar incidents occur even when you've stepped on attending college or in a company meeting when you've become a professional.
This is normal, only if you have the mentality like this, you will limit yourself just because of fear of hurt and humiliated. You feel comfortable in your little box. You are afraid of a change. Though the changes may provide something good for you. And in terms of romance and looking, the same principle also applies.
I will share some simple things that can get you out of your comfort zone. The good news, you can do RIGHT NOW and this strategy can instantly change your look instantly and drastically.
* First of all, most men do not quite understand fashion. While women naturally very concerned with fashion and tend to remember in detail what was worn by a man. Therefore, ask the woman. They will be happy to give advice, because they really appreciate a man who cares about her appearance. Ask them to accompany you shopping and help choose appropriate clothing for you, and do not forget to treat them as a gesture of thanks.
* ALWAYS wear good clothes every time you exit the house. Do not be lazy. You never know when you'll meet your dream woman, so you should always be in the best circumstances. That way, the first impression when I saw your lady will be much better. Remember, to look attractive should be consistent, not only occasionally in certain events.
* You MUST Clothes are always clean and tidy. One of the most important as well, your clothes should not be greatness! Get used to the body fit shirt and pants that fit with your thighs. Unless you were black and living as a hip-hop singer, very few women who think that oversized shirts and pants that interesting.
* This is Indonesia, dude! If you want a little effort, then you can get any item in this country with relatively low prices, including clothing. So you do not need to pay big for fashion. You only need to look trendy and up-to-date. Compared with women who have to have so many kinds of clothes, shoes, bags and accessories for every activity, men just need a few sets of fashion alone. Looking good does not have to be expensive.
* For an informal and relaxed situation, you just need collar polo shirts, basic jeans dark blue, and brown leather shoes. For formal situations, you just need striped shirt (vertikal!) body fit, material pants or black jeans and black leather shoes. Make sure you have a plain belt brown with silver head plain as well. Likewise with a watch. Avoid the color of gold, the motives or the brand that makes your writing seem old and tacky. You can use the waist strap and watch it in all circumstances. Finally, you also must have one or two jackets / blazers as a complement. Total-total, you just have 3-4 pairs of clothes that you can combine according to the situation. Suppose for purposes of clubbing, you can wear T-shirts with a lined blazer body fit, combined with dark blue jeans and brown shoes. Simple is not it?
* If you are fat, too skinny, short or has a disproportionate body, certainly the ideal solution to this problem is to solve your weight problems with diet or exercise. But if not all, there are fashion solutions that you can do. You have to think and to experiment to find out what kind of fashion is right for you. Some fashion models will cover your shortcomings, others even make it increasingly obvious shortcomings. For example, wearing the same or similar colors for shirts and pants would cover the 'excess' fat you and will make you look taller.
* Models also your hair is something that is considered by women. Your hair can make a good first impression or destroyed. For this, you can believe my words one hundred percent. I had long hair shoulder-length since a few years ago, and it turns out the hair (too) long, is only attractive to some women only. Recently I cut my hair, and believe it or not, I feel more attractive. It also dikonfrmasi by several women close to me. In general, models that appeal to a woman's hair is very subjective, but they certainly avoid the gel and hair oil, because women are less like the wet look that will make your face look greasy a follow-up. Wax is easier to use, easy to shape and look more attractive. And I do not need to explain the difference in gel with wax on you, right?
* Talking about a haircut, you also have to match the shape of your head with a hairstyle you want. Different people different head shape. There are oval, square, round and each form fits with some hairstyles. If you use the wrong haircut, it will reduce the quality of your appearance. I am not a hair stylist, so I do not know what hairstyle is right for you, for that you can consult with a hair stylist at a salon nearby. But definitely, Spiky short hair model is one model of a universal and relatively suitable for all men.
* The study said 96% of women are attracted to a charming smile. This means if you have yellowish teeth, from the beginning you've lost the opportunity to know the women you want. Thank the current dental technology, as are many methods to improve the beauty of the tooth. This also applies to those that have advanced teeth, uneven, or broken. Go to the dentist, and fix it! If you can not love yourself, how you can love someone else?
* What about your skin? Acne is a problem for most people. If you have any problems with the skin, you should enhance your skin care. Skin problems are a little difficult, because when the product used is not suitable even be added to the problem. Consult a dermatologist. At least, you can regularly wash your face after every travel and before bed with a special soap man who can be bought anywhere. I know, most men are less concerned about this issue, but as I said above, if you can not love yourself, whether women will believe that you can love him?
It's all change at first it will feel strange and uncomfortable, but if you know the change will take you on a better life, why not just go for it? The tips above may seem you've read and heard through the magazines or television, but if you do all the above you will notice how influential these things in your romance life. Because when you look more attractive, you will feel more confident and be seen as a figure of fun, and it is crucial that required two things you have to captivate any woman.
In contrast to change the mindset and social skills that require internalization and exercise routine in a relatively long time, changing your appearance is the easiest and quickest thing you can do. So it makes sense if you first do this before we learn to practice the other strategies.
Detective X
What is imagined in your head when reading the title above?
The title of the new comic? Nonsense? Or the new science of getting a woman's heart?
Whatever you think, Detective X has nothing to do with Sherlock Holmes, Detective Conan or Kindaichi, it also is not a science, but a new profession that is dangerous .. Professionals who often acted by modern man, lossy or Glossy. And That what makes it so dangerous ..
Later I will explain what the profession was Detective X. Before that, I'll tell you a little about one of the heroic events that often once I saw and heard.
My friend is approaching a hot woman who had already become a best-friend of his. He always consulted with me about how to get her heart while she is already comfortable as a close friend. Then I advised my friend to do the technique slow reset, so the atmosphere becomes like new again know slowly. Then my friend nodded in agreement.
2 days later he came back and asked, "Acts, I do want nge-reset my gebetan ya, I have to start how yah? What I have to SMS? Then, if I see him must diemin how long?" I began to feel strange here .. But because he is my good friend, then I answer them one by one. My friend nodded again.
That night he sent an SMS to me that contains the SMS to be sent to the female hero, and he wanted to dissect one by one word in a text message to be an interesting message. I still wait here, and I understand well after it would appear that these questions can be answered only by God alone. Yes, and I finally returned to spoil.
So did the next days. My friend kept calling me, especially before he was to call or SMS on gebetannya. Until I started to feel uncomfortable, not because he asked a lot, but because he does not do any thing that I recommend.
I could go on vacation out of town for a week. And when I come home, my friend came to me again and straight talk about the next war strategy, ranging from discussing the journal SMS he had sent its response, all response to the woman when talking on the phone, reference books that have been 'helping' my friends in menggebet, and 'experts' who have 'inspired' brains. Plus research has been his theory that if to get her heart.
Dizziness heard Sun Tzu's chattering, I simply ask: "Progress how bro? Good? Already meeting up again?"
My friend replied: "Not to dare me, Kis .. I do not know .."
And 6 months until now, according to information I can, the woman idol of my friends,has changed its compensation boyfriend ,doing interesting life with her friends who can be seen from the photos up for it, while my friends were still struggling seeking information and theories to resolve this colossal case without any clues would be progress. Constantly search, tirelessly, and without conscious his romance wall clock that no longer beats .. aka quit.
There are other stories more severe. I constantly got a call from my other friends because he was fancied by girls junior high school. Though my friend was a man who considered handsome, smart, and he Used to be a confident person.
Suddenly my mobile phone battery when it changed the function, which is out just to wait on this one my friend. Even when I was test too, he kept calling and forced me to inform the next steps to get the little girl's heart. He wanted to yell, but I finally ladeni quickly and annoyed.
Long story short, after my friend started doing what I was instructed, he managed to get the woman to be his girlfriend, the term of its lay, 'invented'. In my opinion, it's easy to get a girlfriend who was junior high, due to a little girl who was struggling to find identity and recognition, college kids get a girlfriend is an individual's pride to show it off to his friends. Yes, labile that brings blessings to my friend.
And starting from here, I should have to breathe sigh of relief.
But alas, my friend came back to ask questions and invite discussion about in-game relationship. This time a little different, because he has begun to dare to debating my advice because he felt it was 'get' the girl.
I admonished him with the words: "Dear brothers, approached the girl was not war! Not need a strategy all kinds, does not need a reference or any techniques for approaching girls .. just need a 3A: Action, Attractions and Adaptation! Girls are creatures of emotion, not the same like us. "
But my friend still insists to assume this is a war of logic, strategy and tactics.
I, with all my firmness, immediately cease all 'consultation sessions' and took off my friend to be independent, and provide final advice to not analyze everything too. Because I thought, if I continue to meladeninya will lead to other problems that will arise later in their relationship.
And now they've broken. My friend had to go back into the room filled with blueprints plans, strategies and miniature mountains of books and e-book to reclaim the girl. That without his knowing it, the room was one lossy cave.
They are definitely an example of Detective X..
The detective who was (and too) dedicated to his work, rather than resolve the case, but instead make the case more circling and no end without result. They do it with very patient, and incredibly, they really enjoy it! They have enough self-confidence, but they are more satisfied when in doing things Utik and process theory in a case rather than act to solve them.
Maybe you immediately think: "Aah, which may still exist people like that .. I'm still not possible."
Brothers, do not take for granted. All kinds of people can be infected by viruses Hope, and it is not impossible Hoping that you feel to take the profession as Detective X. One thing that may be new to you, and it is appropriate that you know, that is too strong Hoping to evolve!
Detective X syndrome is just one result of evolution Hoping that I have just patented.
I'm sure you can take the essence of this definition X Detectives from sad stories above. Therefore I do not need to describe again. But I will sort the potential and the characteristics of a Detective X, in the hope that there are detectives who read this and immediately changed the profession. And those who are not infected to be aware and stay away from all of its potential and its characteristics.
Hopefully it is not the only hope .. Only for Gods Glossy, I swear this is not the type of professions that benefit your future!
Here are the symptoms as well as the characteristics of people who have the potential to be Detective X:
* Men who love to analyze the theories detailed as details of her romance without understanding the fundamental concepts underlying the theory.
* Men who accumulate a lot of techniques to get women, references from experts in foreign and domestic, but little practiced.
* Men who are ngarep, and feel very comfortable when getting referrals from people who better understand, and addicted to continue to consult.
* Men who have high prestige, can not take a deep hatred of defeat, so he will think of a thousand ways to win battles.
* Men who love the romance of the world will look smart. When he was confronted with something that makes it look smart again, he tried to cover it up with bogus theories to still look smart.
* Men genius, good-looking, but often failed in getting women.
* Men who know what to do but to do so, he must ensure that its action is a 100% best option, of course he had to collect the opinions of many people first as a material consideration and analysis.
* Men who have become knowledge-junkie.
You again asked: ", it's basic properties for melogikalisasi man, and have pride in all the problems. That nature of a man!"
Try your attention again, I always embed the word 'very' or 'too' in the points that I describe, so the more clear that something is excessive will be bad in any aspect, including the excessive goodness ..
When there are points that hit on you, do not you rejected. Acknowledge in your heart, and immediately you reduce as soon as possible. Acknowledging is the first way to reduce the symptoms become a Detective X. When you find your friends, relatives or relatives you experience these things, immediately forward this article. Minimal your friends to know first what is waiting for the death penalty at the threshold of the road.
From my experience, the profession has been a lot of Detective X captured by all types of men. Men lossy, Playboy, Nerd or other male types.
Technique and theory is not everything for a man Glossy,and qualified men .Changes in mindset and practice that can take you there. But no matter how it we stressed, still exist that allow him lulled by the sweetness of 'Fruit Knowledge'.
Now I asked with an analogy ..
Which is more you want?
Being a struggling with astronomical sciences space, which continues to yearn to go to the moon, but hesitate because they feel more comfortable to stay on earth?
Or become an astronaut astronomy equipped to taste, but fly to the moon even though he knew it was far more at risk?
I appreciate whatever your choice, friend ..
So, what does 'X' that exists in the profession Detective X? Forgive me, because honestly I almost forgot to explain it. 'X' means you can enter your name or your relatives there, if you or your relatives are trapped in this profession.
Detective designation teasing X is not for material or stamp of shame, but as a reminder to immediately change the profession, being a man Glossy sparkling with a million qualities.
The title of the new comic? Nonsense? Or the new science of getting a woman's heart?
Whatever you think, Detective X has nothing to do with Sherlock Holmes, Detective Conan or Kindaichi, it also is not a science, but a new profession that is dangerous .. Professionals who often acted by modern man, lossy or Glossy. And That what makes it so dangerous ..
Later I will explain what the profession was Detective X. Before that, I'll tell you a little about one of the heroic events that often once I saw and heard.
My friend is approaching a hot woman who had already become a best-friend of his. He always consulted with me about how to get her heart while she is already comfortable as a close friend. Then I advised my friend to do the technique slow reset, so the atmosphere becomes like new again know slowly. Then my friend nodded in agreement.
2 days later he came back and asked, "Acts, I do want nge-reset my gebetan ya, I have to start how yah? What I have to SMS? Then, if I see him must diemin how long?" I began to feel strange here .. But because he is my good friend, then I answer them one by one. My friend nodded again.
That night he sent an SMS to me that contains the SMS to be sent to the female hero, and he wanted to dissect one by one word in a text message to be an interesting message. I still wait here, and I understand well after it would appear that these questions can be answered only by God alone. Yes, and I finally returned to spoil.
So did the next days. My friend kept calling me, especially before he was to call or SMS on gebetannya. Until I started to feel uncomfortable, not because he asked a lot, but because he does not do any thing that I recommend.
I could go on vacation out of town for a week. And when I come home, my friend came to me again and straight talk about the next war strategy, ranging from discussing the journal SMS he had sent its response, all response to the woman when talking on the phone, reference books that have been 'helping' my friends in menggebet, and 'experts' who have 'inspired' brains. Plus research has been his theory that if to get her heart.
Dizziness heard Sun Tzu's chattering, I simply ask: "Progress how bro? Good? Already meeting up again?"
My friend replied: "Not to dare me, Kis .. I do not know .."
And 6 months until now, according to information I can, the woman idol of my friends,has changed its compensation boyfriend ,doing interesting life with her friends who can be seen from the photos up for it, while my friends were still struggling seeking information and theories to resolve this colossal case without any clues would be progress. Constantly search, tirelessly, and without conscious his romance wall clock that no longer beats .. aka quit.
There are other stories more severe. I constantly got a call from my other friends because he was fancied by girls junior high school. Though my friend was a man who considered handsome, smart, and he Used to be a confident person.
Suddenly my mobile phone battery when it changed the function, which is out just to wait on this one my friend. Even when I was test too, he kept calling and forced me to inform the next steps to get the little girl's heart. He wanted to yell, but I finally ladeni quickly and annoyed.
Long story short, after my friend started doing what I was instructed, he managed to get the woman to be his girlfriend, the term of its lay, 'invented'. In my opinion, it's easy to get a girlfriend who was junior high, due to a little girl who was struggling to find identity and recognition, college kids get a girlfriend is an individual's pride to show it off to his friends. Yes, labile that brings blessings to my friend.
And starting from here, I should have to breathe sigh of relief.
But alas, my friend came back to ask questions and invite discussion about in-game relationship. This time a little different, because he has begun to dare to debating my advice because he felt it was 'get' the girl.
I admonished him with the words: "Dear brothers, approached the girl was not war! Not need a strategy all kinds, does not need a reference or any techniques for approaching girls .. just need a 3A: Action, Attractions and Adaptation! Girls are creatures of emotion, not the same like us. "
But my friend still insists to assume this is a war of logic, strategy and tactics.
I, with all my firmness, immediately cease all 'consultation sessions' and took off my friend to be independent, and provide final advice to not analyze everything too. Because I thought, if I continue to meladeninya will lead to other problems that will arise later in their relationship.
And now they've broken. My friend had to go back into the room filled with blueprints plans, strategies and miniature mountains of books and e-book to reclaim the girl. That without his knowing it, the room was one lossy cave.
They are definitely an example of Detective X..
The detective who was (and too) dedicated to his work, rather than resolve the case, but instead make the case more circling and no end without result. They do it with very patient, and incredibly, they really enjoy it! They have enough self-confidence, but they are more satisfied when in doing things Utik and process theory in a case rather than act to solve them.
Maybe you immediately think: "Aah, which may still exist people like that .. I'm still not possible."
Brothers, do not take for granted. All kinds of people can be infected by viruses Hope, and it is not impossible Hoping that you feel to take the profession as Detective X. One thing that may be new to you, and it is appropriate that you know, that is too strong Hoping to evolve!
Detective X syndrome is just one result of evolution Hoping that I have just patented.
I'm sure you can take the essence of this definition X Detectives from sad stories above. Therefore I do not need to describe again. But I will sort the potential and the characteristics of a Detective X, in the hope that there are detectives who read this and immediately changed the profession. And those who are not infected to be aware and stay away from all of its potential and its characteristics.
Hopefully it is not the only hope .. Only for Gods Glossy, I swear this is not the type of professions that benefit your future!
Here are the symptoms as well as the characteristics of people who have the potential to be Detective X:
* Men who love to analyze the theories detailed as details of her romance without understanding the fundamental concepts underlying the theory.
* Men who accumulate a lot of techniques to get women, references from experts in foreign and domestic, but little practiced.
* Men who are ngarep, and feel very comfortable when getting referrals from people who better understand, and addicted to continue to consult.
* Men who have high prestige, can not take a deep hatred of defeat, so he will think of a thousand ways to win battles.
* Men who love the romance of the world will look smart. When he was confronted with something that makes it look smart again, he tried to cover it up with bogus theories to still look smart.
* Men genius, good-looking, but often failed in getting women.
* Men who know what to do but to do so, he must ensure that its action is a 100% best option, of course he had to collect the opinions of many people first as a material consideration and analysis.
* Men who have become knowledge-junkie.
You again asked: ", it's basic properties for melogikalisasi man, and have pride in all the problems. That nature of a man!"
Try your attention again, I always embed the word 'very' or 'too' in the points that I describe, so the more clear that something is excessive will be bad in any aspect, including the excessive goodness ..
When there are points that hit on you, do not you rejected. Acknowledge in your heart, and immediately you reduce as soon as possible. Acknowledging is the first way to reduce the symptoms become a Detective X. When you find your friends, relatives or relatives you experience these things, immediately forward this article. Minimal your friends to know first what is waiting for the death penalty at the threshold of the road.
From my experience, the profession has been a lot of Detective X captured by all types of men. Men lossy, Playboy, Nerd or other male types.
Technique and theory is not everything for a man Glossy,and qualified men .Changes in mindset and practice that can take you there. But no matter how it we stressed, still exist that allow him lulled by the sweetness of 'Fruit Knowledge'.
Now I asked with an analogy ..
Which is more you want?
Being a struggling with astronomical sciences space, which continues to yearn to go to the moon, but hesitate because they feel more comfortable to stay on earth?
Or become an astronaut astronomy equipped to taste, but fly to the moon even though he knew it was far more at risk?
I appreciate whatever your choice, friend ..
So, what does 'X' that exists in the profession Detective X? Forgive me, because honestly I almost forgot to explain it. 'X' means you can enter your name or your relatives there, if you or your relatives are trapped in this profession.
Detective designation teasing X is not for material or stamp of shame, but as a reminder to immediately change the profession, being a man Glossy sparkling with a million qualities.
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