I am quite sure this will be one of the most important article you have ever read in this blog, but unfortunately you will not be much get nothing if you have not been previously ngehit foreign woman.
Do not know the meaning ngehit? anywhere during this, my brothers?
Ngehit is to approach and interact with new women, whether they connect from a friend or the first time you meet and do not know at all. That could happen in elevators, bus stops, coffee shops, checkout queues, gym, mall, etc.. When compared with the more familiar term that has been popular now, ngehit was more or less parallel to the activities of 'Female (approach) and acquaintances', but of course the structure is more intelligent than just come and ask acquaintances.
The principle of what you'll learn here will only change the mindset, fishing ideas, and provide fresh motivation, and recharge Glossy strength.
Please read carefully because you'll learn the ONE MAIN PRINCIPLES that allow you to survive, even to stay motivated, even if a foreign woman who suddenly hits you refuse you.
Stop from your other work, turn off the MP3 player and keep your cell phone so no one can disturb you in 15 minutes.
Do I have got all your attention?
Good, let's get started.
Friends, students, brothers, if you only have the brain capacity left only to one lesson that you can get from me,then this is the only must your best RECORD AND PLAY in your memory bank every time you deal with rejection of foreign women who you hit:
He refused you socially, not at all personal.
That's it. That's the golden principle.
So simple, yet very powerful.
Let me explain these principles into a number of points so that you can digest it properly.
FIRST, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that he also would give exactly the same treatment to anyone who dared to approach him.
You just happen to be (only) a brave man approached and started talking, so it's you (the one) who get less favorable response from him. If at that time there were a hundred men have enough manhood to him, of course they too will one by one 'kicked' by a woman.
So you for what you get annoyed? Why you should turn around to leave the place with tottering steps? Why do you have to wince in pain, gritted his teeth, clutching your chest as if there is a large gaping wound in there?
His objection was a general rejection directed at anyone, did not relate specifically to you, pal. In the early days I trained myself to ngehit, I am always frustrated every time you meet a woman and her friends that 'shoot me down' like that. I do not distance themselves from the minds of the reason they refuse is because they do not like me personally.
Although rare, the effect of rejection is so hard that often destroy my spirit to try again, or at least to overshadow me, fear of being rejected again, so could not concentrate on playing with the prime strategy.
How could she could not love or sick of my personality if he had never met me before? If I had just opened her mouth a few words, and often have not finished my speech, the woman has to look grinned, bitchy and refused, of course it's not a personal rejection of me, right?
Starting from the glance that narrowed his eyes sharp and accused, his hands raised as if expelled, pushed her away, saying her lips that contain the words of rejection and the tone of his voice that sounds uncomfortable ...
... It all is the automatic response of the autopilot which just came out without him knowing!
It is nothing more than a natural reaction to defend itself, refusing himself to open, so avoid the risk of wounded. Such mechanisms are biological and psychological skills possessed by women not only your target, but also every other human.
The mechanism is more sensitive to women because they do have to be alert to take care of myself. But once again you face rejection reflexes that are wary that does not mean anything.
That does not mean he is disgusted with you personally. It does not mean he did not refuse because you are ugly. He was not hostile to you because you suck or disturb him. There is only rejection without the word "you" at the end of the word. There's nothing personal because it's not about yourself or anyone who approached him self.
If you approach a woman and suddenly she sneezed, you would not give special meaning to the her sneezing it, right? You would think she's got the flu or allergy recurrence, something has nothing to do with you. Well, you have to get used to be like that every time we face a woman who refused.
I can rotate using thousands of other analogies to explain the same thing, but I'm sure you've more than understand this first point. If it is still a little confused, it's okay just continue reading because the next thing would be better to explain it all.
SECOND, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that he actually prove that the moment he was in reality the world is negative, emotional and insecure.
Men lossy often lost in hallucinations and imagination it hope that gorgeous woman that always have a great day, be positive, and have never experienced the emotional disturbance or a decline in confidence.
That's why you fear overshadowed doing wrong, do funny and embarrassing, or look geeky when approached. When you finally bring myself to do that and got a response of rejection, you feel your fears proved and vowed not to repeat it next time.
One great, mate!
Again, the rejection had nothing to do with yourself. Maybe that morning he woke up with a less fit state of the body being too tired the day before. Maybe he should be busy afternoon with an annoying problem on campus or college so that his mood was wrong. Maybe that night he was stuck in traffic for hours before finally arrives at its destination. That's why when he was approached by a man Glossy, she felt inferior and close themselves by refusing to you.
His manner was rough and cold it's not because you approached him, but because he was being rude and cold to yourself. Why even you who feel inferior, rejected, wounded sore, or feel lost?
Your arrival is clearly a positive thing (if you've developed a paradigm Glossy) and if he refused, it is a loss. It was he who ought to feel weak and defeated, even guilty because it was being bitchy to people being friendly with him.
The woman was not rejected you, but being himself: he refused the opportunity to have fun and enjoy life sociality. He prefers to follow inferiority,negativity, drowning in negative things rather than spend time with Glossy Men full of sensation.
You might have an argument, "But before I approached her, she again wrote plasticity happy and relax, chat with friend's apartment. negativ air as you say".
Buddy, a person can become negative due to (a) external pressures such as problem-tragedy-error, (b) are not familiar with the existing social situation, and (c) have the concept of low self-image.
If a woman and her friends are having fun look just yet reject your presence, do not quickly assume it is caused by your own personal because he did not know you. Consider the fact that he was rarely approached by a man so do not yet have a relaxed reaction to respond.
Combined with the issue of low self-image, he will also be easy to feel inferior noticed by his friends because he had been approached and invited to talk by a man. She felt good to be able to behave in social situations in order to maintain its prestige in the eyes of friends, and also other people in the room who saw the incident did not even know him.
All peer group pressure and the inner conflict makes it even more panic, so he chose to take a shortcut by issuing a rejection response for himself can avoid embarrassment if he made a mistake. Popular term today: watch image.
Back again to the problem of rejection, he does not reject you because YOU, my friend. He rejected you because of HIMSELF!
She was rejected precisely because he did not feel confident. He refused because he felt insecure or uncomfortable if she did eligible to be approached by a man truly courageous act than men in general. He refused because not sure I can interact with normal and satisfactory under the pressure of 'supervision' of his friends.
You could see absolutely NOTHING yourself element in the rejection response? Even if she said, "Uh, I see more guns elo ama chatting my friend, do not ngeganggu here we go .." You should know that it was not the reason the truth!
Just think, can someone who is having fun, filled with positive emotions and enjoy social interaction to suddenly being closed, negative or rude to others.
You can not.
Be rude to him was not going to provoke a negative reaction. If you do not believe, please Ledek and despicable man who had just received a promotion or salary, or a new student who was told to get IP cum laude, and see if he will respond to you with a serious or angry.
So if you know that negative attitudes will not be able to affect someone who is enjoying a positive life, then you meet a woman who gave a negative response even if you're being ultra cool and positive, you can instantly know who is actually problematic. Leave him by saying, "At first glance it seems you son fun, but it turns out I was wrong, today elo so insecure and negative. Hopefully things get you better .. "
Ngehit is a positive thing that can not be done by men like hope lossy. Then, for heaven's sake, why you are just feeling low, messy, massacred and fog shrouded the negative when he rejects you? You should feel happy because they do not need to spend time interacting with women a lower value, negative, and not be invited to be normal and have fun.
How, you are ready to give the Award for Best Motivational this article?
Not yet, still there is one last point, somewhat different but still on the same principle theme.
THIRD, when she was cold, rejecting, or even rude, know that it's possible rejection of the techniques you use to initiate communication with him, not addressed to you personally.
Technique you use is not the same as your personality. For God's sake, the technique is like clothing and pants that you wear for a particular day.
A set of techniques that you use only for the media to build communication can eventually know each other personally respectively. So when a woman refuses, it could be a problem is your technique that does not make it quite tempting to wait.
What can you do?
Obviously instead of moaning, consider yourself stupid, stupid, and hundreds of other hurtful words!
A man Glossy not judge him based on what he can or can not do, so rejection and failure is never mean loss of quality self-esteem.
Just because the technique you choose is not successful, it does not automatically make you a man who failed. You actually become a man who failed and lossy if it considers the rejection technique means a rejection of you personally.
Let me beat your head until the leak and then use a hose to inject a more useful paradigm: a rejection of not more than saying, "It's time to try another technique!"
In all the trip, I was able to try dozens of ways initiates the conversation, get a stack of rejection, then immediately tried dozens and dozens of others without hesitation because I am tired or realize if the women really got in touch with me personally, they will not never wanted to finish talking all day.
That's what makes me personally never consider any sentence or picingan rejection of their intimidating eyes every time I came over.
When you realize that she is actually objecting to techniques and strategies you use, then you feel one ounce lighter because it can throw a useless tactic from your game list.
You may be approached from the wrong angle, deliver invitations lossy lines, touching it too quickly, or speak with a stammer that he was reluctant to serve you.
Do hit as often as possible until eventually only a handful will be left behind techniques that have been tested and effective when paired with your unique personality.
Have you ever thought that women do not refuse to evict you, but to check whether you are qualified enough to be able to modify other games?
So you can imagine how stupid if you either give up and finish a hit with feelings of shock, never given a chance, and consider yourself can not achieve what you dream dreams?
After reading all this, whether it makes sense if you still feel low, wounded egos, so that it becomes mushy if you one day you ngehit group of women and have found them to reject you outright?
Is there any point if you complain and shut himself just because an ignorant woman and leave you when you ask her to speak?
Friends, students, brothers, I challenge you to underlie every adventure you hit gold with the principles above and see for yourself whether you become stronger, more vibrant, and even more explosive with new ideas every time I get a rejection or just bragging way nonsense.
I've told this article would probably be the most valuable you will ever get free from this blog.
When you hit a foreign woman show attitudes of rejection, regardless of what he said or shown through her body language is something that should be considered as a social expression, rather than attack or assessments of the quality of your self.
Lossy Men will always be cornered and blamed himself when meeting resistance. When home, he would lock himself in a room, staring at the ceiling thoughtfully to remember how painful and embarrassing incidents, continue to aggravate the wound was so wide open and festering.
While Men Glossy will automatically think, 'Wow, very sorry for this woman. Attractive appearance, but his tumor, lest he ... Eeeh, there was another woman there, moved aaah .. 'while walking to move to other target groups, do not forget to turn around a minute to call from afar, "The first day huh? Okay "
Welcome back in the world Glossy.
