Why Women Like Men Selfish?

You met a woman of your interest. And all the actions you do approach responded well. Very good in fact. He received all the attention you give, willing to be invited to go watch or dinner, sharing stories and laughing together. It seems all went well.

But when you finally express your feelings during these turbulent, a lump of feeling that you store and keep well in a dark corner of your heart and lonely, when you express a desire to forge a closer relationship and meaningful ... he rejects you.

Classic reason that always and will continue echoed by women in this situation begins with the opening sentence: "Sorry, really, not that I do not like it at you ..."

Then proceed with: "... but so far I only consider you my friend." Or any other alternative, "... but I do not want dating again first." And finally closed with: "But we're still friends ok .."

For a moment, you lose your heart stops beating rhythm and a split second. Your heart is broken, even more so your ego. And faintly from the background you can hear the song vanished owned DEWA, ​​".. I realized .. unrequited love .."

Perhaps you are different from the original soundtrack with me, but I'm sure you all who are reading this article must have never experienced anything like the above. And one question that never can be found by your answer is: "If indeed he is not interested in me from the start, WHY did he continue to give positive responses and false hopes?"

"Why?!"

Do women like all forms of attention you give? Do women know when you're approaching? Did they know from the beginning that they will reject you? Do they know that the end would end up like that?

The answer to all questions is: YES!

Just simple fact, because women are the most selfish creatures on this earth.

In terms of biology and evolution, it has been recognized scientifically. But I'm not Darwin and this article would be too long if I explain his theory. If you are interested, please you are looking for and taught myself. I just want to reaffirm that she was the most selfish creature is a fact.

I do not speak ill of women. Absolutely not. Because selfishness is human nature. Everyone is selfish. That's what makes your ancestors, your parents and your own still living until now. Selfishness is the key to survival. And the level of selfishness of women, especially beautiful women and high demand, usually much higher than men.

Because since childhood they have been accustomed to be spoiled, desirable and obeyed his will. Just imagine for a moment. Since childhood, your parents always spoil you, and begin their teens until now untold again how much the men hoped that always follow your wishes. All you need do is smile sweetly and speak a little spoiled.

When all the wishes you have always obeyed, and you always get almost everything you want, you're definitely going to be a very selfish. But you will not realize that you are selfish. Because to you it is normal and reasonable thing to happen. That is your reality.

Now you must already know that women are emotional creatures. Almost all their actions based on feelings. For women, what they felt in seconds and when it is most important to them, more important than the consequences because the consequences. And they will do anything to satisfy their emotional satisfaction on the spot.

That's why when they feel good and comfortable with your attention, they will continue to provide a positive response which will invite you to give more attention and comfort him. Although they know that ultimately they have to hurt you. But your feelings are not their priority. What they feel, what they want, it is more important than anything else.

The scenario that I mentioned at the beginning of this article is just ONE small example of the selfishness of women. One example is often the case everywhere, ever experienced by Jet and myself, and the most I heard from my friends the other, is a case where the woman already has a partner but he is very close to your friends . Very close, the closeness of a friend than usual.

Usually it starts from a less than ideal relationship between the woman with her partner. You are a kind man who was in the right place and right time. The women get from you what can not be obtained from the partner. He often complained about their spouses to you, saying it wanted to break up with her partner, and even states kalu he likes you. You even more enthusiasm and water it with more attention.

After a while, you just realize that he never took any action to be your lover official. Not to break with her partner, sometimes when the man was kind and attentive, he is like forgetting your existence at all. And come back to you when he needs a 'service' you. The woman was not too broken up with her partner but also do not want to lose you.

While drinking water diving. He who stands to gain from this situation. And the problem, you do not dare to take decisive action because you are too afraid to lose it .. "A little more .. soon .. she will be mine. "That's what's on your mind. But it never happened.

I've been there. Some of my friends even worse in a situation like that until many years. With the faithful waited for the woman to finally break up with her partner and lover who hopes to become official. Just to see the woman moved into the arms of another man.

She was selfish. I think you can remember your other experiences that can confirm my statement.

I do not blame her for being selfish. Everyone has the right to be Selfish. It's just natural. And my focus is not on the part of women. Everything I wrote above is just for you to understand what will I share below. My focus is always on the man and yourself. And because of that, so I just blame you who have been less selfish.

Yes! You less selfish. And that's what causes you to always fail and become victims of a cruel world of romance and not indiscriminately. She was selfish, and what kind of guy who can make a woman interested? Men are more selfish than he.

Again, do not get me wrong first. I'm not telling you to be a male bastard who hurt and playing women, or beat up every man who is close to your target female. No, bro!

Selfish here means prioritizing yourself and your happiness over the woman. You know exactly what kind of woman you are looking for, and what you want from a relationship. You want the best for yourself and you will not receive less than that.

Selfish means you have a strong principle of life and not wait on things that will compromise your happiness.

If you are selfish, you will not be willing to be a man dispensers by women, who approached only when it is needed. Or as in the case above, if you are selfish you will not be willing to give your attention before her breakup with her partner. Because not only are you losing time, effort and cost, heart and your feelings can be hurt. So you will be firm.

All or nothing. Take it or leave it.

If you are selfish, you will not give excessive attention to women, treat her for eat, give gifts and do all her request, instead you will make for the woman who did it all to you. You will not invest too much before he was also investing in you.

If you are selfish, you will do great things yourself instead of things that are pleasing the woman. You'll bring an action movie, rather than go with romance drama movie. You will be invited to hang out with your friends, instead of following him with his friends and sitting dumbly while they gossip and laugh.

Your happiness is your main focus. Since you can not possibly be happy woman if you yourself are not happy. If you can get what you want, you can provide what women want. This simple principle is often forgotten men. And consciously or not, women understand this principle. That's what causes them attracted to you.

If you are selfish, you will make yourself being chased women instead of chasing him. You will expected by women, not a hope in women.

How ironic it sounds, but actually you're providing what women want. Women want men who know that he is able to obtain what is desired. According to my personal experience, often times I have failed just when I was in and out the desire of a woman than my own desire.

But you have to remember one more principle: to be selfish does not mean you wear all sorts of ways that manipulative to get what you want. If he did not want to be your partner, then you should understand and not have to force him. Simply go and find what you want elsewhere...