Men And Romancc

Buddy, do you feel like a romantic guy? Or want to learn to be romantic?

Along with the rise of romantic movies and mellow songs are sung by nan ngarep musicians homeland, the more men who are inspired to learn to be a Romantic Man.

Even this trend expanding indiscriminately, narrow understanding of the men about to start a relationship with a woman. Give the illusion of them, that by being romantic it will create a shortcut to a success in life romance.

Special thanks to the Medias! Thanks to the media, which always mensimbolisasikan romance with roses, poetry and song, diamond rings, and beautiful words alone, the men became increasingly distant from the romance of a healthy life and quality.

Some men spend a lot of money to buy flowers and rings to women that they love ..

Some men rack their brains just to assemble a beautiful poem to women that they love ..

Some men waste their precious time waiting for years to prove the sincerity of the woman they love ..

And of course, some men were killed in a physically or mentally, when he learned all of that was a total failure ..

Coupled with other typical cases. Culture romanticism has been eating so many male victims.

So what's the error that makes the romance that made the modern man is a total failure? Even tend to end with shouts of, "bullshit you once!" From a woman. Whereas male characters in the movie, these tips magazine, and the lyrics of the song managed to get the women they want. Points missed what you thought?

You see, most men do not understand well and not give a damn about the true meaning of 'romantic' itself. And already the law if we do not understand the true meaning of something, we also do not know the mechanism and how to do it right.

And even if you master something without understanding the true (self-taught), the knowledge you also will still be easy to collapse, getting lost, even stuck! Because you are not based on solid foundations. You do not know what and why you are wrong ..

As a literature student, I studied romance academically. And I really want to straighten your views about the meaning of 'romance', as well as providing a solution in accordance with what I have learned.

I promise not to lecture you with the history and philosophy of romanticism, but I will give a simple general definition of romanticism is only fitting that you know.

Romance in itself is a way or someone tips to express feelings of interest and admiration (love) on the opposite sex is interested. The Europeans are the pioneers of medieval romance .. in antiquity, they show an interest with flowers, poems, sweet words, and even sacrifice their lives.

Until finally, how this has become a trend and culture in the world to express love sleuruh .. until now!

But modernization has changed the face of drastically romance, my friend. When the actions were so easy to get romantic with 'price' is no longer cheap and artsy, the ancient romanticism demanded to adapt to modern culture.

It creates a romantic divided into two opposing camps, namely: (1) modern romantic action that has been successfully adapted to the times, and still bears the name of 'Romantic'. And (2) the action of ancient romance, which still relies on the ways that tend to succeed in ancient times, and finally ends with a 'rag' or 'quasi-Romantic'.

Think about it carefully. Today, automatic ROMANTIC stamp attached to the disclosure of a sense of action like that are considered genuine, creative, and managed to 'charming' hearts target. Melt like hot chocolate and felt so lull. Instead, Cap rag will stick on a number of actions that fail to 'charming' hearts, is not considered sincere and sheer seduction. The action was seen Trying too hard "to get attention from its target.

Weird is not it? One thing is distinguished from the genuine and least.

In other words, as long as you and thousands of other men think that you will successfully get a woman if you do a romantic action with SINCERELY! Though obviously not have a sincerity meter course. Who the hell knows if you are sincere or not?

Psycho-cultural differentiation is very interesting and confusing at the same time. So people who do tend to get lost. This is a division of a very thin, invisible, but the results are very much different.

You liked a woman, you are dealing with it, and you feel like showing your liking to him. Do not know what to do to attract him, then you can only use methods that work in film or creative ideas of your best friend (who is actually also a single all).

You think that's how to do. No woman may not be touched. So you prove your sincere love through the gift stuffed Teddy Bear is cute in his neck dikalungi a ring that you gave at 12 am right on his birthday.

The woman just stared at you with surprised faces. Then smiled and menucapkan thank you. He received your gift, and immediately you say, "I love you .. Can not I be your boy? "

The woman then thinks hard, putting all his strength and feeling unpleasant to say, "Oh thanks bangeet! I do not have thought .. But sorry, yes, I can not .. I was more comfortable to be friends wrote, you were too good for me .. "

I can translate the above sentence to Indonesian to be, "Najong .. Animashaun! Rags very siih! But it's also nice dolls the same ring .. but how well? Gue ga interested at lu .. "

Or you are recording a collection of songs that symbolize your feelings on the woman in a CD, giving it the feeling of hope-hope-anxiety. Your genuine sincerity. In the CD cover you even knitting poetry:

He was the person who has made me fall-wake.
He was the one who makes my life sweet.
He was the idol of my heart, my dream for this.
He is the end mywaiting.
He is .. You ..

The above poem is a poem most sincere ever, but instead get a stamp rag and she became heavy Ilfeel.

And you're sincere! Why would you even fail?

If you often fail in the romantic action, I would not blame you. But I also will not let you getting trapped. This is just due to misunderstandings about the romance that always force you to continue to rely on old methods that have been worn.

You can still bounce back!

Well, how to be a real romantic guy that will not be branded as Sok Rags Men Romantic?

Friend, many men mistakenly thinking that a romantic name that is a matter of nice words to seduce a full compliment and give special gift. And that's not at all!

Romantic Men really rely on TIMING and ATTITUDE!

TIMING mean you have to know the right time to launch a romantic action. You can not beat playing for granted. When you do so at the wrong moment, then surely you will meet with failure.

When you were little and wanted to have bought the toy, then you wait for the right time to seduce your parents, right? If you want to ask for a raise, then you certainly will take into account when the right time to talk with your boss, right? If you are broke and want to borrow money on your closest friends though, you'll notice right time to talk to her, right?

To be effective, there is a good time to do everything.

You actually understand. But why when dealing with women, you always play the beat, spontaneous, and not counting anything? You with the blind hope that just by capital sincerity and affection, you will get a heart.