Men, Women, and Sea Dogs

In the breeding season arrives, the seals will gather in large numbers in an inland or a small island. The female will try to attract the attention of males, and a competition event was held on the island.
The Smackdown one stud each other to demonstrate skill, agility, and strength. For males who win fights, then the female allows the male to marry her.
From the story above sea dog we can take a conclusion: the females like males are superior to other males, because the female wants a superior offspring. In addition, the stud who won the competition to prove that he was able to maintain and protect the females and their children someday.
Not only seals that have rituals before the marriage. There are so many examples of rituals from other animals that have a ritual that is more unique and diverse to find a partner.
In principle, the romance of our lives as human beings is also not much different from seals and other animals. Because humans really are both located in the kingdom Animalia or abundant metazoan classification with the animals. But because we are undergoing a process of evolution of a more perfect and complex, culture and rituals of our romance was far more developed and more complicated.
In this article, I'll peel a romance dynamics are quite interesting and many are not aware of the men out there.
Are you ready? Let's go .....

Each is a problem, you immediately try to give reasons and provide solutions that make sense. But even if all you are very logical reasons, such as one plus one must have two, she seemed unable to understand. As a result many men who think that women are being over-sensitive, emotional, and rarely use logic well in looking at a problem. But that is the assumption that was not relevant because they also created a brain volume of the same with men.
Perhaps it is actually you are not guilty on the him, but actually you've made a mistake on YOURSELF.
Indeed women are intelligent beings. All problems and complaints made to you is a way in which women, consciously or unconsciously, that I refer to as 'periodic feasibility study'.
Women want and need a superior figure of a man who has a greater ability than other men out there. And one of the benefits that I discussed here is the ability of man who could maintain themselves, their partners and families of various issues, problems and dangers. This is a very important factor, because the man has the role as head of a family, a decision maker.
To ensure that women do not choose the wrong man, woman created by having a special mechanism that is used to test how feasible the man that the woman decided to have a relationship with him.
The problem of testing the woman told the man was not finished when they 'invented' or married, women will continue to conduct a feasibility study that is continuously, periodically, to determine whether your ability as a man is still feasible or not.
Many men think, women only course of action to follow his emotions, but in fact if any close friends who confide, they understand and are able to give logical advice to his friend. They also often provide suggestions in a positive and reasonable.
"I do not dipikirin first, wait for your emotions subside first. New'll slowly diomongin fine .. "
It also proves she really knows how to use their logic, but under certain conditions, they are deliberately disable the logic and enable the mechanism to test you. Because of this instinct has been around for thousands and even millions of years, the instinct is inherited by our ancestors (them) as a means of self defense and survival.
This mechanism would be disastrous for the men, if we do not understand and do not realize the function. From the small problems that are not important such mechanism is automatically activated, prompting the woman to perform a "feasibility study" on a regular basis to you, which appears in the form of noise and problems given the woman to the man.
By giving a lot of problems and complaints that makes your head hurt, the woman tried to test and assess your eligibility as a man who excel. If the problem is trivial given by the woman you just can not handle, then she will assume you will not be able to resolve the problem of larger problems in other matters that may be encountered in the future.
Maybe this is a way that is not smart and making Ngada according to your view as a man, but according to this woman is a smart way to ensure the survival of the woman, her family, and his descendants. Therefore, a woman MUST continue to give problems for the problem to you. They can not help it! It is a fact.
If later the woman was unable to consider you and fail to prove your competence as a man who could overcome the "feasibility studies" they provide, then the woman is consciously or unconsciously, will try and try to take over the function and your role as a man .
You can see these things happening around you. Relationships where the woman becomes the dominant party, which determines all things and hold the rope in the man's neck. A similar relationship like Paris Hilton with Tinkerbell, her beloved chihuahua dog. Because it has invested heavily in energy and emotions and spend time together, the women are fond of the man. But it is the same compassion you feel for your beloved dog or cat, or as an employer a sense of affection towards his men, who have long worked hard untukknya faithfully. That is NOT a sense of affection and admiration like a queen looked at the king.
Which often you experienced?
Since you are considered not feasible, the best possibility is that he will leave you and find another man who is more competent. And you will be free while until you find the 'employer' new. While the possibility that the worst is, you will always be under the control of the woman until the year 2012 (the rumor is the time of Resurrection).
Either way, eventually you can only lament the fate of your own at the end of your room is dark, gloomy and dark, while blaming the woman. And you have to sacrifice many things for the sake of the woman. You have to prove the sincerity of love, and give away all your self-esteem for him. But all the good you did not mean anything anymore, if you are already in the view of one eye by the woman, because it is not feasible in carrying out the role as a man.
You have three options that you can do to respond to a feasibility study done to you lady.
The first choice, you are thinking about and responding to the woman with a serious intent, and to counter attack by way of a frontal and provide logical arguments and sensible, so that eventually lead to commotion and bigger problems.
The second option, you listen carefully then relented and apologized even though you're not wrong.
The third option, you realize what is happening and you know how to turn off the alarm by way of an intelligent, precise and more mature so that the women see you graduate and proved to be the best partner!

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