Make a Girl Fall in Love with You

How to make a girl fall in love with you? Well for some, it's no big deal. So many among us are very charming naturally and it takes them no more than a couple of days to have the woman of their dreams swooning all over them. But for the average-joes like you and me, charm isn't something which comes naturally and is something you might want to work on. So how can you make that special girl-of-your-dreams fall in love with you?

Well once you get the mental block, the fear, the inability to talk, out, it becomes much simpler to make a girl fall in love with you. All you need to do is follow some of these ways to make a girl fall in love with you. Read on for more dating tips.

Suit Up!

It's fair to assume that women will enjoy a well-dressed, dapper looking man more than a slob. Now while going to the Armani store and picking up their nattiest suit isn't for all of us, it is still within our reach to dress well, look tidy and presentable. Wear clothes which you feel you can carry off well enough. Learn how to look good. After all which women doesn't want a good-looking man?

Confidence


This is a quality which can be hard to cultivate, if you haven't got it. Most women love strong, confident and assertive men. Hardly do you see a woman cozying up to a guy who isn't self-assured or is shy. A confident man is certainly a turn-on for women.

Smile

You might not believe how few men can smile and talk to a beautiful woman at the same time. But by smiling, you exude a confidence as well as giving a sign that you're actually enjoying the company of that woman. Besides, smiling makes you look handsome as well!

Conversation


Women love a man who knows what to talk and how to talk. So when I say that you should have an interesting conversation with a woman, it really ought not to be about the weather or something else which will not interest and moreover disenchant the woman you're speaking with. Find some common points among yourself which interest you both for you can talk about. Otherwise, always have a really impressive or a funny story up your sleeve. So if you don't have much in common, at least there is something really nice and well-rehearsed to talk to her about!


Flirt



Another little something which doesn't come to most men naturally. Flirting tips can be hard to give and moreover each person's approach and flirting style differs. But women do love a man who is naughty and charming at the same time. A man who appreciates their looks and is not scared to speak up about it. Women love an ego-massage, and flirting is one of those fairly effective tools which you could use to your advantage.

Talents

Most people who give relationship advice will tell you to show the girl your artistic or talented side. Can you sing/play a musical instrument/paint/write etc? This point is a sure winner as women love to be wooed and showered with attention and affection. And singing a song for a woman will definitely do that whole heart-strings-fluttering bit for you!

Keep Your Secrets

Women are quite accustomed to having that fine line between a friend and someone they'd like to date. Now most men still haven't wrapped their heads around where women draw this line, so it is always good to be a little secretive and mysterious. Keep some things about yourself for later, for the girl to discover over time. By being far too open, you might end up in the 'friend-zone'. Forever!

Where and How to Kiss Your Love

# Behind their ear.
# Tip of their nose.
# Back of their neck.
# Underside of their forearm.
# Curve of their waist.
# Palm of their hand.
# Inside their wrist.
# Under their chin.
# Their eyelids.
# Inside of their ankle.
# Their collar bone.
# Tips of their fingers.
# Their spine.
# Small of their back.
# Their tummy.
# Behind their knees.
And also those special places (I won't go to detail)

Scheduling Alone Time for Your Relationship

Scheduling alone time is one of the best things you can do for your relationship. To be the best person you can be, including the best partner, lover, and friend, you have to stay true to you and the only way to do that is to spend time with yourself and nobody else. Spending time alone gives you the opportunity to feed your soul, resituate your sense of self, and get in touch with your individuality. Without alone time, the opposite often comes true.

It is never too late to get back in touch with your true self. Take it on as a project and add your alone time to your Daily Romance planner. Plan a few hours alone each week and an occasional weekend to yourself. It may sound like a lot for those of you out there who aren’t used to it, but you will see the positive results right away. The more of a commitment you give to yourself, the healthier a person you will be, and in turn, the better you can fill the roles you have chosen in your family.

Daily Romance
Schedule a little alone time for yourself every single day. It may only be relaxing for a few minutes before the rest of the house wakes up or taking advantage of the occasional hour home alone, but make sure that it happens on a regular basis.

Keep yourself involved in a hobby you enjoy doing by yourself. Find a great artistic outlet for yourself. Things like dancing, painting and photography are some of the best ways to grow the seeds planted inside of you.
Spend a few minutes at the end of your days to journal. Lay your thoughts and feelings to rest before hitting the pillow and your overall health and wellness will benefit.
Motivate yourself. Read something inspiring when you wake up, or take a few minutes during the day to reset and give yourself a little pep talk.
Exercise. Go for a jog, walk, hike, or bike ride by yourself. You will get the time alone to reflect, decompress, and recharge, but you will also get the benefits of feeling good about Daily Romance exercise (or a couple of times a week) like the release of endorphins, better digestion, healthier heart, and nicer legs.


When You Have An Hour
Each week, when your hour of scheduled alone time comes up, resist the urge to flip on the TV and spend some real quality time with yourself.

Spend your time looking for a new book. Don’t feel the pressure of finding a book that will help you deal with any issues you have. Find something that you will fall in love with, an adventure, a love story, a biography. If you’ve already got a book you know you will love, spend your whole hour in its pages.
Listen to music. Choose retro girlie stuff and dance around the house like you are 13 again, emotional ballads and karaoke your heart out, or inspirational tunes to just sit and enjoy where they take you.
Write. Journal or start a writing project like a children’s book or autobiography, or try your hand at some poetry.
Meditate. Meditation is of the essence for your spiritual, emotional and physical self to be healthy. If you haven’t spent time in meditation before, try a guided meditation of some sort. You can even get CD’s that guide you through meditation for all sorts of purposes like your health, peace, relaxation, listening to your heart, and more.
Take a bath. Bring along a good book, a glass of wine, or your favorite music. Light some aromatic candles and lock the door.


When You Have A Few Hours
Every couple of weeks, make time to go do something fun all by your lonesome.

Do something really exhilarating like bungee jumping or sky diving and get the extra thrill of doing it all by yourself, all for yourself.
Work on a project you’ve been wanting to do like a gardening mission, a do-it-yourself design project, or making a scrapbook.
Take yourself on a day trip. Pack yourself a picnic and hop in the car. Drive somewhere beautiful and peaceful where you can spend your day. You could hike, bike, or ride a horse somewhere wonderful or just drive, stopping off when you see something interesting.
Spend the day at a museum, art or otherwise. They are great places to let your imagination wander and also reflect on your life.
Hang out at the beach, river or next to the pool, soaking in the sun and thinking or reading or listening to music.


When You Have The Whole Weekend
At least once a season, schedule yourself a whole weekend or more to get centered. The first time you do this, guaranteed, it will be life-changing. Save up a bit of money for yourself without feeling guilty. You won’t regret it.

Take yourself camping. Pack your favorite foods, a good book, plenty of firewood, and just hang out with yourself. Getting out in nature is also a great time spend digging into your spirituality and journaling as well. If a tent in the forest isn’t your cup of tea, get yourself a cabin or a room in a peaceful resort.
Take a train trip with one of those great travel passes where you can hop on and off as often as you like for a certain amount of time. The pass gives you the freedom to be totally spontaneous and traveling by train the least stressful way to travel.
Spend your weekend at a spa. Eat healthy foods, hydrate in mud baths, detox with body wraps, relax with massage, and relax all day in fluffy robes. Take therapeutic walks through gardens and get into a really good book while you are there. Come back feeling refreshed and renewed...

Tips for Girls

ove Tips for Girls

1. Do something he would probably never expect. I mean something interesting.

2. Always respect him. Respect is one of the things men treasure the most in relationships.

3. Surprise him with a candle-lit dinner.

4. Tell him that you feel safe when you're in his arms.

5. Forgive him when he messes up.

6. Touch him affectionately. Put your hand on the small of his back, run your fingers thourgh his hair, using your fingertips, lightly trace the inside of his forearm.

7. Encourage him in whatever he does. (work, business etc)

8. Spend intimate time with him. No mobile phone, no computer, just you and him.

The do’s and dont’s of the world of relationships and dating

Dating Rules -- Do's

1. Do try to always look your best and be punctual. Showing up late or looking messy gives the impression that you don't care -- and, if that's the case, why go out with this person in the first place?

2. Do try to enjoy yourself on dates. Yes, finding your soul mate is serious business, and it can sometimes even be a scary endeavor, but keep in mind that this is supposed to be fun.

3. Do compliment your date on how he or she looks. Men and women tend to put a lot of effort into getting ready for a date, and it's nice (and flattering) to hear that all that energy paid off.

4. Do be interested and interesting. Ask questions, share insights and pay attention when your date is telling you what they like to do, read, watch, listen to, etc.

5. Do tell someone directly if you're not interested in seeing them again. Lying and stringing people along simply because you're too scared to tell them the truth is selfish and hurtful. If you don't want to go on another date with someone, let them down as gently -- but firmly -- as possible.

6. Do date only people you're attracted to, no matter what your friends say. Approval by your peers doesn't prove a thing.

7. Do stay positive, even when dates don't end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find a prince. Along the way, you will probably meet some pretty nice people.

8. Do plan ahead. Dating is a creative diversion that requires concentration and energy, so make arrangements ahead of time and let your date know you put some thought into the evening.

9. Do be proactive about finding people to date. The man or woman you've been searching for your whole life is probably not going to come ring your doorbell and beg you to go to dinner anytime soon. Dating requires action, so get out there and meet as many people as you can.

10. Do surround yourself with positive, like-minded people who are dating, too. Part of the fun of dating is celebrating, comparing notes and commiserating with your friends. Surround yourself with positive people who are rooting for you to succeed at love and will be there for you if/when you need emotional support.

Dating Rules -- Don'ts

1. Don't call, text message or email someone you've just started seeing more than once a day unless they reply (or in the event of an emergency). Desperation and instability are major turnoffs.

2. Don't date the kind of people who've hurt you in the past. Many of us are attracted to people who are bad for us, but it's important to break these patterns and seek out healthy relationships with matches who won't demean you or make you feel bad about yourself in any way.

3. Don't be late for a date. It's just rude. If you have to change your plans, give the other person as much notice and consideration as possible. And always apologize.

4. Don't lie to your date or about any aspect of your life, even if the truth isn't as sexy or you're worried they won't like it. It would be awful to ruin a potentially life-changing relationship with your perfect match because of some silly lie you told early on to impress him or her.

5. Don't be too available. We don't mean you should play games, but if you're free every night, you're probably not taking care of yourself, pursuing your own interests and spending time with your friends -- which means you're probably not very interesting to talk to. People with full, exciting lives make the best dates.

6. Don't give away too much about yourself at the beginning. Revealing your innermost secrets on the second date can lead to rejection. Don't be scared to open up, but remember that getting to know someone takes time, and you should let your relationship evolve.

7. Don't check out other people when you're on a date. Ever. This is just tacky. You may think you are subtle, but while you're scoping the cutie in the corner, your date will be heading for the door. Extend your partner the courtesy of concentrating solely on them while you're with them.

8. Don't be rude or get drunk on a date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.

9. Don't ignore your personal safety. Carry your cell phone and keep it charged -- and make sure to tell your friends where you're going and when you'll be back. First dates should take place in well-lit public places. Don't ever let yourself be coerced into going anywhere or doing anything that makes you uncomfortable.

10. Don't give out personal information like your home phone number or address on the first date. Keep these details to yourself until you trust the person you're dating.

11. Don't have sex on a first date. If you like someone and are interested in getting to know them better (and possibly having a relationship), sex on a first date will likely ruin everything. It's much too soon, it's not romantic and it communicates to the other person that you're more interested in their physical characteristics than in finding out who they are.

12. Never date a married person. Statistically, it is very unlikely that they will ever leave their husband or wife for you. Dating someone who's married is the best way to serve yourself a heaping helping of misery, lies, deceit, sadness and heartache. If you are married, separate before dating. If you're single, don't be a shoulder to cry on -- you deserve better. Go out and find someone who's emotionally (and legally) available to you!